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Decide To Have A Blast In Your Relationship. Sandy and George fought all through their relationship! It lasted three years and there was not one week stretch without some heartache.

They got used to such heartaches till they thought it was normal. They got involved in many wrong things in their bid to have a nice time. And at the end of the day, they still broke up as a result of constant ceaseless series of quarrels and heartaches.

Well, I am here to tell you this morning, decide to enjoy yourself in that love story!

Quickly, I want to tell you how to enjoy your relationship and of course, how not to enjoy the relationship.

Decide To Have A Blast In Your Relationship!

How To Enjoy Your Relationship 

1. Let the foundation of your relationship be God’s word. Whatever is opposed to God’s word, don’t do it.

Rom 14:23b (KJV) …for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.

2. Have a mutual mentor/pastor you are both talking to. There will be things that are beyond you and your saving grace will be that there is someone you can talk to.

3. Create a balance between faith and fun. The Cinemas are good, but make sure there are Bible studies too. The ice cream is okay but ensure you have time for fasting together. Balance is key.

How NOT to enjoy your relationship.

Sex should be out of the picture. This will eventually bring agony to the heart because you will lose God’s favour when you stay in disobedience. This will not be your portion in Jesus’ name.

2. Staying over the night in your lover’s place, playing a small Mummy role, and so on is not the way to go. In the kingdom, we don’t do such things. Continually spending nights together when you are not yet married will get you into unnecessary troubles. 

3. Being in love or relationship with a person and keeping it secret already is symptomatic of serious issues. When you are disenfranchised from people and from authority figures because you are in love, you will suffer alone and have nobody to talk to during the day when the storms arise.

I am going to stop here this morning! Decide To Have A Blast In Your Relationship 

I will enjoy my relationship 


Lord, keep me from falling. Hold me by the hand in Jesus’ name

Rom 14:23b (AMPC) For whatever does not originate and proceed from faith is sin [whatever is done without a conviction of its approval by God is sinful].

Stop those things that will not work eventually 

Romans 14


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