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As we conclude on this topic, below are practical steps to take so as not to awaken love before time.
Our scripture remains

I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.

Son 3:5 (KJV) 

1. Don’t visit at ungodly hours.
He’s alone, living alone, and then you decide to visit by 9.00 pm. Are you going for a night vigil? Never visit a guy at a guest house, hotel etc.

2. Don’t go and cook dinner for a single guy.
After dinner, certain things usually happen. Don’t try finding out.

3. When you are together, don’t rest your head on his laps.
He’s going to get a hard-on, and things can get messy from there.

4. Don’t rub at his chest, beards, neck, and so on.
Don’t lean over on his chest. The hands would want to get busy. Those could be erogenous areas that will weaken your resolve. It doesn’t mean if you just finished speaking in tongues.

5. Don’t talk dirty with each other.
Don’t start asking for his view about sex. Things can get really crooked fast and you might be discussing pornography soon.

6. Don’t press your breasts on him,
while deceiving yourself that you are praying together. You are not only stirring up love, you are setting him on fire. You, him, heaven, and hell know that you are not praying. You will trap yourself that way.

7. Don’t tease him
Don’t ask questions like “Are you really a man?” Stop asking him if he can really perform on bed. At that point, it is not the devil tempting you, you are the one tempting the devil.

8. Avoid prolonged hugs, kissing, smooching,
All in the name of greeting each other.

9. Stop discussing past sexual escapades.
Stop telling him how many guys you have slept with. Stop describing graphically your past sexual escapades. If he is not a mature Christian, he will feel cheated and will want to have his way with you as well.

10. Stop watching romantic movies together.
Your bodies will long for each other. If you continue, one day, you will find yourself in the land of perpetual compromise.

I can go on and on, but I’m sure you already have an idea of what I mean by saying you should not excite love.
May God grant you more understanding.

I will not stir up love before time

Pray that God will keep your feet strong

Eph 6:13 (KJV) Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. 

Do not awaken love before time

Esther 1-5


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