Couple Types: Vocal Husband, Vocal Wife Part 2
Here is the second part of this couple combination.
A vocal husband, vocal wife combination will need a lot of wisdom and tact to survive in their marriage. If they don’t manage their personalities well, a crash is imminent.
Here are a few areas they need to work on.
Their anger.
I gave an example of Simeon and Levi yesterday! Their sister was raped in a particular city and because of that, they got angry and wiped off a whole city of all males and cattle!
Why did they go to that extent? They were two angry brothers. Their anger was referred to as instruments of cruelty. They went to that extent because both of them were angry at the same time!
Now, a vocal husband and a vocal wife cannot afford to be angry simultaneously! The house will be in flames!
No wonder the scripture even warned against getting married to a person who has uncontrollable anger issues.
Pro 22:24 (KJV) Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:
Let’s take a look at some other translations.
Pro 22:24 (GNB) Don’t make friends with people who have hot, violent tempers.
Pro 22:24 (MSG) Don’t hang out with angry people; don’t keep company with hotheads.
Pro 22:24 (GW) Do not be a friend of one who has a bad temper, and never keep company with a hothead,
You will be amazed at why the scripture advises against befriending an angry person.
Pro 22:25 (KJV) Lest thou learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul.
Wow!
Even if you were not given to anger before, moving closely with an angry person can initiate you into that anger cult!
Pro 22:25 (MSG) Bad temper is contagious— don’t get infected.
It is contagious!
In conclusion, a vocal husband, and a vocal wife must make up their minds to stay away from anger!
