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Connecting Deeper With Your Wife

There are many areas where you need to understand your wife, but there are four critical areas I want to mention this morning.

Understanding these areas will help you to understand your wife better.

Understanding your wife better will bring peace and tranquility into your home.

What are some of these areas?

Connecting Deeper With Your Wife

1. Understand her love language

Her love language is her password!

Language is so powerful that when God wanted to deal with man’s wrong ambition in Genesis 11, all He did was to confound their languages.

“And the LORD said, Behold, the people is one, and they have all one language; and this they begin to do: and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined to do. Go to, let us go down, and there confound their language, that they may not understand one another’s speech.”  (Gen 11:6-7, KJV

There are four love languages. These include

a. Words of Affirmation – saying the right words.

b. Quality Time – spending time with her

c. Gifts – buying her gifts regularly

d. Acts of Service – helping out at home

e. Physical Touch – touching her regularly

I will not be able to expatiate on this now, but your wife will respond mostly to one or more of these.

Connecting Deeper With Your Wife

2. Understand her temperament

Her temperament is the reason she acts the way she does.

There are four basic temperaments.

These include

a. Sanguine – Appealing personality, Talkative, Storyteller, Life of the party, Good sense of humor

b. Choleric – dominant, strong, decisive, stubborn and even arrogant

c. Phlegmatic – easy going, laid back, nonchalant, unexcitable and relaxed

d. Melancholy – thinking, assessing, making lists, evaluating the positives and negatives, and general analysis of facts

Usually, she would have a blend of two of these.

Understanding these will help you better to manage weaknesses and strengths. You will be able to minimize weaknesses and harness strengths.


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