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Communication Is So Important In Marriage. I started writing yesterday on things that should be present in every marriage and we looked at one thing yesterday. Today we look at four more things. 

The second thing that must be present in every marriage that will succeed has to do with communication.

Communication Is So Important In Marriage. Constant Communication. A man was once asked what the three most important things in a marriage are.

His response:

1. Communication
2. Communication
3. Communication

Do I agree? Yes, I fully do!

When communication dies, assumptions, suspicions, lies, and deception will take over.

There is nothing as beautiful as a marriage where both parties can fully express themselves.
Hear each other out!

When a man talks, his goal may be a logical explanation, but when a woman talks, it is more than an explanation, it is a release; an emotional release.

So every time she is muted, there are pent-up tensions being stored up for a later time. 

It is akin to the molten magma within, nothing shows on the surface much, but one day, the magma can no longer hold still, and there will be a volcanic eruption causing untold havoc!

Unexplained hurts, unexpressed bitterness, are all like the molten magma in the belly of the ground.

So, when you tell your spouse to “shut up” continually, and it looks as though you are in charge and winning, well, you are not really winning, you are actually losing!

Allow free expression in your matrimonial home.

When a lady is also reluctant to talk or communicate, it shows some deeper issues as well.

Both husband and wife have to be committed to communication. The excuse of temperaments should not be brought in.

Well, people at work, in church, or elsewhere can look at you and say you are a quiet person, but your spouse should be able to say “you are not quiet to them!” This shows they are friends!

Make the commitment to be friends and to keep talking. Communication Is So Important In Marriage.

I will keep communicating with my spouse

Lord, help me to work on areas where I am lacking 

Mat 12:35 (MSG) A good person produces good deeds and words season after season. An evil person is a blight on the orchard.

Have a time out with your spouse 

Matthew 12


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