How To Understand The Lady In Your Life

How To Understand The Lady In Your Life

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Women are generally emotionally complex than men. Their emotions are endlessly and intricately intertwined!

Women are deep. That is why they can hold a baby for nine months without bulging. Have you ever left a baby alone with a man for thirty minutes?

That is why God listens to them because they understand what it means to travail. They know what it means to hold a growing life and then birth that life at the right time.

Understanding a lady is a journey!

A guy who had been in courtship for seven months sat in my office and said he knows everything about his fiancé. I chuckled. He probably doesn’t understand anything about her.

I have been married to my wife for twenty two years, and yet I am not quick to want to say I understand her.

I once heard a man who had been married for fifty years saying he just discovered one new thing about his wife!
Lobatan!

So, how do you begin the journey of understanding a woman? I am just going to give you ideas ni o!

1. Understand her God

One of the most sure ways to understand that special lady in your life is to seek to understand her maker.

Nobody understands a product like the manufacturer of that product.

Nobody, no human being will ever understand her like God would.

So, the beginning of the journey is when the man develops a conscious relationship with God. When you are rooted in God’s love, God will now cause His love to be shed abroad in your hearts.

As you begin to understand the breadth, the length and the depth and height of this love, this will give you a wisdom that surpasses every effort in trying to understand her, and you will know how to do the right things that will unlock her creativity and make her feel loved.

That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God. – Eph 3:17-19 (KJV)

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I choose to understand my partner.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I receive wisdom to understand my partner.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 3:17 (KJV) That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Love God passionately

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 3

Oil For Today – Day 172

Oil For Today – Day 172

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Today is Oil For Today – Day 172. Let’s lift up our voice one more time as we pray to God! Watch Video on Youtube HERE. Check other days HERE.

Scriptures For Today

Oil For Today – Day 172

Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. 

Isaiah 41:10 KJV

Prayer Points For Today

Oil For Today – Day 172

1. Let’s begin to worship and give thanks to God

2. Lord let your presence be visible in my life in Jesus mighty name

3. I shall not be dismayed or overwhelmed by situations and circumstances for you are my God

4. Give me the revelational knowledge of Jehovah has my God in Jesus name

5. I ask for your strength in 2022 in Jesus mighty name

6. My father and my God, please help me in all aspect of my life in 2022  in Jesus name

7. Father, uphold me in 2022 in Jesus name

8. Let the right hand of your righteousness be with me in Jesus name

9. Let me see you all round, multidimensional help in 2022 in Jesus name

10. Let’s begin to give God thanks for answers to our prayers

Confession For Today

Oil For Today – Day 172

Father in 2022 I see God’s divine help. Every project, dream, desires becomes a reality by the help of God. God is strengthening me in 2022. I will not be dismayed in my marriage, finances, on the job, in my business. The Lord is helping my business go international. Every help I need, I receive in Jesus name. God upholds me throughout 2022 in Jesus mighty name, Amen.

How Not To Marry The Wrong Person – Part 2

How Not To Marry The Wrong Person – Part 2

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Continued from yesterday…

The one you marry will either make or mar you. She can ignore and frustrate you, if she is the wrong woman.
If she is the right one, she kneels to pray and intercede for you.

She loves you genuinely. She cares for you. She makes your house a home.

Marriage is destiny wedged together. Blessings are shared. Afflictions are intertwined. Family problems and lineage issues mingle together. Family demons from both families meet and re-strategise. Thank God for the blood of Jesus!

You had better marry a man who is romantic and who can also cast out demons.

You had better marry the one that cannot only speak phonetics but can also speak in tongues.

May your marriage and family not be subject to weak and beggarly elements who had been conquered in Christ.

There are issues and troubles where money becomes useless…and the only thing that stands sure is a relationship with God, and knowing your rights in Him.

You are not married yet, he is stressing out your life asking you to compromise, what are you still doing with such a person?

Don’t you know that whoever sins against your God will sin against you?
And don’t you know that whoever you sin with will sin against you?
It takes the same heart!

Calm down!
Review that relationship!
Talk to someone!
Seek counsel!
Isolation leads to desolation.

When the devil wants to deal with a man, he isolates that man!

What are your godly friends saying? What is your pastor saying? What are your patents saying?

You cannot be right while all the authority figures in your life are wrong!
Press the Pause button!

What if I lose him or her? Then he or she is never yours in the first place!
God is not an author of confusion.

I will stop here this morning!

I pray that God will strengthen you to do the right thing and do the needful.

In the name of Jesus, I put a stop to all manipulative, sick, demented and distressed relationships.

Have a great day!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not marry wrong.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to get it right in marriage.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Romans 8:14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Watch and pray.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Rom 8

Preparing For Year 2022 By Pastor Dunamis (26th December 2021)

Preparing For Year 2022 By Pastor Dunamis (26th December 2021)

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Preparing For Year 2022 was taught by Rev. Dunamis Okunowo on the 26th of December 2021 at Shouts of Grace Center, Joke Plaza, Beside Trans Amusement Park, Bodija-UI Road, Ibadan.

In his teaching, Rev. Dunamis made mention of the following important points:

What you say becomes your experience. That is how powerful Words are. Therefore learn to speak right words, and also align your actions to your words.

Year 2022 is what you call it!

Most times, the problem of the believer is not that of lack of knowledge, but that of lack of corresponding actions.
Your knowing translates to nothing until you are able to translate your intentions to actions.
Until something is done, nothing can happen.
It is not enough to have good intentions! Your good intentions don’t count; it is your actions that count.

Two Things You Need To Make Year 2022 Great

  1. Your very strong decisions.
    Decisions help you build a strong will
  2. Your corresponding actions.
    This is what actually translates your desires to results.

Some Decisions We Need To Make For Year 2022

1. Decide to increase your commitment to God

And ye shall serve the LORD your God, and he shall bless thy bread, and thy water; and I will take sickness away from the midst of thee. There shall nothing cast their young, nor be barren, in thy land: the number of thy days I will fulfil. Exodus 23:25-26 (KJV)

There is always a reward for serving God.
The bread that God blesses will never spoil or get exhausted.
The blessing of your bread causes it to multiply (that’s what happened in the feeding of the 5000 by Jesus – Jesus blessed the bread and it multiplied).
True prosperity is not in having enough for yourself, it is in been able to meet the needs of others.
Your service to God guarantees your good health!

2. Decide to improve your library

Decide to maximize your time in 2022. Lay aside every distraction and time wasters in your life. The time wasters in your life could be movies, games, social media, etc.
Decide to increase your learning power in 2022.

Learn to convert every gifting you have to money. Package your gifting and monetize it.
Decide to be wealthy

3. Decide to increase in your giving

There is that scattereth, and yet increaseth; and [there is] that withholdeth more than is meet, but [it tendeth] to poverty. The liberal soul shall be made fat: and he that watereth shall be watered also himself. Proverbs 11:24-25 (KJV)

It’s literally impossible to increase your earning without increasing your giving; this is because Kingdom prosperity is predicated on your giving.

The seed is for planting for the days to come. Do not consume your seed!
Once your seed is in the ground, your harvest must come.

And he said, So is the kingdom of God, as if a man should cast seed into the ground; And should sleep, and rise night and day, and the seed should spring and grow up, he knoweth not how. For the earth bringeth forth fruit of herself; first the blade, then the ear, after that the full corn in the ear. But when the fruit is brought forth, immediately he putteth in the sickle, because the harvest is come. Mark 4:26-29 (KJV)

We make decisions, and those decisions in turn make you.

In 2022, ensure you satisfy all levels of giving

  1. Tithe
  2. Offering
  3. First fruits
  4. Giving to your parents
  5. Giving to your pastor
  6. Giving to those in need
  7. Giving to Kingdom projects

To listen to messages of Rev Dunamis, go HERE or HERE

Oil For Today – Day 171

Oil For Today – Day 171

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Today is Oil For Today – Day 171. Let’s lift up our voice one more time as we pray to God! Watch Video on Youtube HERE. Check other days HERE.

Scriptures For Today

Oil For Today – Day 171

For the Lord God will help me; therefore shall I not be confounded: therefore have I set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be ashamed. 

Isaiah 50:7 KJV

Prayer Points For Today

Oil For Today – Day 171

1. Let’s begin to worship and give thanks to God

2. Let your help attend to me oh Lord in Jesus mighty name

3. I refuse to be confounded in 2022 in Jesus name

4. I remove every distraction from my life in Jesus name

5. Every shame is eliminated from my life on Jesus name

6. I receive on-time help in marriage, ministry & every aspect of my life in Jesus name

7. God is sending reinforcement to me in every area of my life I need help in Jesus name

8. I refused to be confused in 2022 in Jesus name

9. My joy will be full in 2022 in Jesus name

10. Let’s begin to give God thanks for answers to our prayers

Confession For Today

Oil For Today – Day 171

The help of God is available to me in Jesus’ name. I see the different dimensions of God’s help in my life in 2022. On-time help is my portion all through 2022.  I am focused on my assignment. Every distraction is eliminated from my life. I will not see shame in 2022. I belong to the company of the unashamed in Jesus’ mighty name.