Yes, he is asking you out, you have prayed or you are praying, he is looking more like it, what do you do as the lady before ultimately giving your heart to him?
Well, what you do is to ask questions.
In the process of asking questions, you will conclude whether you are with the right person or not.
His responses to the questions would show his depth, his preparedness, his state of heart, how he thinks, and what he would likely do in certain circumstances.
These questions, essentially are not to knock off God’s direction but to affirm that which is in your heart concerning what God is saying.
The responses to the questions would also wake you up in case you are just in some romantic and unrealistic island of love, or you are just simply hung on a crush.
Did you miss out on yesterday’s devotional, we’ve got you covered. Kindly go HERE. For KHC video Devotionals, kindly go HERE
Gird up your loins now like a man; I will demand of you, and you answer Me.
Job 40:7 (AMP)
“I have some more questions for you, and I want straight answers.
Job 40:7 (MSG)
Face me and answer the questions I ask!
Job 40:7 (CEV)
Here are a few questions to ask him after he has asked you out.
1. Why me? Why not another person? What do you see in me that warranted your decision? The response to this question would show whether his intention is genuine or not.
You see, when someone is telling a lie or pretending, it shows in his speech patterns, when he is saying the truth and communicating from his heart, it also shows.
You must not allow the feelings of love to becloud your judgment in picking out loose ends in the responses.
Let him face the panel. lol…
2. Conviction What is his conviction? The response to this question will help you determine the source of the move and the motive of the heart.
Who told him you are the one? How did he really get to know?
This kind of question helps you to know if it is just a playful thing he has in mind or the real deal.
Who wants to be walking up and down the aisle without ever getting to the altar to receive the ring? God forbid.
So, you are nearing thirty, and you really don’t have time for some adolescent fling that will lead nowhere!
To be continued…
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY I will marry rightly.
PRAYER FOR THE DAY Lord, lead me to the right person for me.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY Isaiah 30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.
Today is Oil For Today – Day 150. Let’s lift up our voice one more time as we pray to God! Watch Video on Youtube HERE. Check other days HERE.
Scriptures For Today
Oil For Today – Day 150
To console those who mourn in Zion, To give them beauty for ashes, The oil of joy for mourning, The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; That they may be called trees of righteousness, The planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.”
Isaiah 61:3 NKJV
Prayer Points For Today
Oil For Today – Day 150
Begin to thank God for today.
Begin to pray for the comfort of the Spirit for those areas you’ve been weeping over.
The God that turns ashes to beauty, visit me and give me a beautiful turnaround today in the name of Jesus.
The LORD anoints me with the oil of joy in place of mourning, and my testimonies spring forth speedily in the name of Jesus.
He that sits between the Cherubims, visit my relationship/marriage and make it beautiful in the name of Jesus.
Every attempt of hell to steal my beauty, I stand against it this morning in the name of Jesus.
Before the end of 2021, God turns my mess into a beautiful message in the name of Jesus.
I come against every plan of the enemy to steal, kill, and destroy in the name of Jesus.
I put on the garment of praise by the help of the Holy Spirit in the name of Jesus.
Let’s begin to thank the LORD for answered prayers.
Confession For Today
Oil For Today – Day 150
God is changing my story. He is giving me beauty for ashes. In areas where I have wept, I receive the comfort of the Holy Spirit. I receive grace to stay in joy. I will not lose my joy. I chose to rejoice evermore. I will no longer be depressed. God is beautifying my life with testimonies. My relationship/marriage brings glory to His name. Today, I receive a beautiful turn around in Jesus mighty name, Amen.
Today is Oil For Today – Day 149. Let’s lift up our voice one more time as we pray to God! Watch Video on Youtube HERE. Check other days HERE.
Scriptures For Today
Oil For Today – Day 149
And it will be that you shall drink from the brook, and I have commanded the ravens to feed you there.”
1 Kings 17:4 NKJV
Prayer Points For Today
Oil For Today – Day 149
Begin to thank God for today.
I plug myself into God’s plan for my sustenance today in the name of Jesus.
I declare that everyone who the LORD has commanded to favour me becomes restless till they do so in the name of Jesus.
Today, my thirst for the fountain of God’s Word is heightened in the name of Jesus.
Every obstacle standing in the way of my daily breakthrough is removed right now in the name of Jesus.
I activate the covenant of protection upon me and my family in the name of Jesus.
The work of my hands is protected from the invasion of ‘locusts, palmer worms and caterpillars’ in the name of Jesus.
I pray that I am sustained wholly – spirit, soul, and body – till the appearing of our LORD Jesus Christ.
My ears are opened to hear the instructions of God for my next level in the name of Jesus.
Let’s begin to thank the LORD for answered prayers.
Confession For Today
Oil For Today – Day 149
I decree and declare, I am sustained. I will not be left stranded. The heavens are opened unto me. Help comes to me. I will not draw a blank. My daily needs are met. Jehovah Jireh supplies my needs. Supernaturally, my bills are paid. My debts are cancelled. God comes through for me. I am fed till I am satisfied. so shall it be in Jesus name, Amen.
The faith of your lover. His faith is important, mostly because his faith will influence yours.
It is his faith in God that will cause him to have the fear of God. If he has the fear of God, he will never cheat on you.
He would rather protect you and care for you. He would have the wisdom to live with you and raise a godly family because the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.
Never ever get married to a man who has no regard for God. It would be the greatest mistake of the century.
Perhaps, the Holy Spirit is leading me to write on this because someone is out there at the crossroad of a decision. Well, no matter how much you love him, no matter how much preparation you have made, no matter how much has been spent, if he does not have a relationship with God, pick your bags and bolt!
Run for your life. Preserve your destiny with your choice.
Don’t become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That’s not partnership; that’s war. Is light best friends with dark? [15] Does Christ go strolling with the Devil? Do trust and mistrust hold hands?
2Co 6:14-15 (MSG)
There is no greater partnership than marriage. Destinies are wedged together. Souls become tied together. Afflictions are intertwined and shared. Blessings are shared as well.
Did you miss out on yesterday’s devotional, we’ve got you covered. Kindly go HERE. For KHC video Devotionals, kindly go HERE
In marriage, there is a “knowing” at the highest level as love is consummated. The husband becomes the cover and the head of the family. God forbids that the head is sick, for he would only transfer the sickness. He can only give what he has.
God forbid that the head is foolish, he would only disseminate the foolishness and no more. He would make foolish decisions and it would affect the wife and the children, and sometimes, the children’s children!
The mouth of the foolish poureth out foolishness.
The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness.
Pro 15:2 (KJV)
Take a look at the Message Translation:
Knowledge flows like spring water from the wise; fools are leaky faucets, dripping nonsense.
Pro 15:2 (MSG)
May you not have a leaky faucet of a head, dripping nonsense over your destiny!
I tell you, as a counselor, that can be frustrating!
How beautiful is it, to have a praying man over your life, to have a man who is faithful to you, who will never cheat on you, not because he doesn’t feel like it but because he fears God!
Go for a man that fears God. Go for a God-lover! Go for a God-chaser!
It would put your mind at rest. You wouldn’t need to add the unrest, the suspicion, the insecurity, the disagreements, and the bickering that goes with knowing your spouse is cheating on you to your daily pressures.
Go for peace of mind.
Be blessed today and always in Jesus name!
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY I will marry rightly.
PRAYER FOR THE DAY Lord, lead me to the right person for me.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY Isaiah 30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.
Today is Oil For Today – Day 148. Let’s lift up our voice one more time as we pray to God! Watch Video on Youtube HERE. Check other days HERE.
Scriptures For Today
Oil For Today – Day 148
All things were made and came into existence through Him; and without Him not even one thing was made that has come into being.
John 1:3 AMP
Prayer Points For Today
Oil For Today – Day 148
Begin to thank God for today.
I speak forth life into every negative situation in my life in the name of Jesus.
I begin to reactivate every abandoned project/contract in the name of Jesus.
The LORD gives me the strength needed to birth all that He has in mind for me in this month in the name of Jesus.
I begin to declare heaven on earth to my life and family in the name of Jesus.
Every spirit sponsoring miscarriage in my life, I bind you in the name of Jesus.
I disconnect myself from the negative family pattern of delayed conception and birthing in the name of Jesus.
I declare that the LORD satisfies me with His mercy early, and causes me to dance and rejoice all day long in the name of Jesus.
In this season, I experience the faithfulness and hand of God in my life and family in the name of Jesus.
Let’s begin to thank the LORD for answered prayers.
Confession For Today
Oil For Today – Day 148
In the name of Jesus, I call forth all that have been available for me in Christ. I lay hold on all that pertains to good living. I birth that which I have been pregnant of. I declare, this is my season of overflow. This is my season of abundance. This is my time to shine and excel. Every promise God has shown me, I bring them to be. I will not have a miscarriage. My fruit will not drop in Jesus name, Amen.
