Why Your Lover Can Close Her Spirit Part 2. We started on this series two days ago and we have looked at two other devotionals in the series. If you missed them, find them below.
This morning, we are looking at the second part of Why Your Lover Can Close Her Spirit. Let’s dive into it.
2. When you make her feel foolish and stupid.
When you constantly imply that your wife is ignorant and dumb, she will be hurt.
You don’t always say it, but it’s clear from your body language and the way you discard whatever she suggests.
Sometimes a husband will not even listen to her opinion.
She is to be seen rather than heard? That is never God’s intention for marriage.
In reality, she is your helper!
Only if you had listened to her “dumb” or “stupid” ideas would you have saved a lot of money sometimes!
She may not be logical, but she is instinctive.
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You know the man you want to partner with in business, but she will tell you based on an intuition that the man will mess things up. Yes, she won’t have facts but you will find out she is often right. It’s intuition.
She has no proof, no precedent, but she has intuition!
Don’t dismiss your her gut instinct!
Why Your Lover Can Close Her Spirit Part 2.
3. When you make her a laughingstock
If you make your wife the target of crude jokes in front of your friends and family, she will be hurt.
Only a foolish husband would do such a thing! You’re supposed to protect her and project her, not embarrass her at every turn!
Make it clear to everyone, especially your parents, that you are proud of your wife.
Biting words and mocking her about her weight and appearance will easily wound her.
Constantly harping on her flabby tummy will not result in a tummy tuck operation!
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Why Your Lover Can Close Her Spirit Part 2.
Take her to the gym or do a home workout with her!
She had that flabby tummy because she carried your baby in it for months, so treat her well!
And, dear lady, do all in your power to please your husband when he starts bugging you about your weight.
He is moved by what he sees! It is important to look your best not only for him but also for your health!
Why She Can Close Her Spirit. Yesterday, we looked at signs showing a wife has closed up her spirit against her husband.
We identified and explained the following five signs:
1. She begins to criticize you
2. You disagree on everything.
3. When she goes silent for several days
4. She pretends to be fatigued.
5. Her expression is always downcast.
These are surely not good places to be for the couple. Some of these tell-tale signs are also relevant even as singles in courtship, and you must seek counsel urgently when you notice any of them. It will be detrimental to ignore them and proceed to the wedding.
One of the most unpleasant points in a marriage is when a wife closes down her spirit.
Women are often more profound than men.
What a man may dismiss as a harmless jest may cause a lady to suffer for days.
What you believe is a joke could become a source of contention in your marriage if you are not careful.
Amo 3:3 (KJV) Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
How will they move forward, how will they grow, and how will progress be made until they agree?
Is Your Wife’s Spirit Closed?
When a wife closes her spirit, prayers become ineffective, fasting becomes ineffective, and God’s favor is not assured.
What are they?
What are the telltale symptoms that a wife’s spirit has closed?
If you can locate two or three of the following, you should pay attention to your marriage and your wife.
1. She begins to criticize you
She used to be a fan of yours. She used to approach problems objectively. She used to give advice in her own unique style. But, over time, if you see she is simply criticizing, without really considering what you are saying, she is undoubtedly upset.
2. You disagree on everything.
When nothing you say makes sense, she rejects anything you say, and she appears unwilling to agree with you on anything, she has most likely closed down her spirit.
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Is Your Wife’s Spirit Closed?
3. When she goes silent for several days
Something is wrong if your wife abruptly withdraws and says nothing, contributes nothing and appears withdrawn.
She becomes quiet and withdraws inside her shell to express her dissatisfaction.
4. She pretends to be fatigued.
When it comes to the time to make love, she gives one of two reasons.
She tries to avoid it, and when she can’t, she lies down and lets you do what you want, but she’s bored, sad, and disconnected.
While you’re doing this, she could nearly be reading a novel. It indicates that she is in pain.
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5. Her expression is always downcast.
Her facial expressions, countenance, and mien have changed from what they were.
Her formerly vibrant smile and excitement have all faded into apparent rage and pain on her face.
She lets you know she is uncomfortable and distant when you are with friends or people you respect.
These are symptoms that she is unhappy, in pain, injured, nursing emotional wounds, and that her spirit is quickly closing down.
This is not a good place for a husband to be because your spiritual efficacy will suffer, your oil will be depleted, and your productivity will suffer.
This is not a healthy situation for the wife since her susceptibility, as well as her husband’s vulnerability, will develop and they will be easily caught
It is not where God wants you to be as a wife.
After discussing the warning signals, what are the fundamental causes and how may they be avoided?
I pray that God would bring relief to every troubled marriage and that God will intervene and bring healing in Jesus’ name.
When To Think About Breaking Up. Should we call it quits or not?
I’ll give you some useful advice today. A little heartbreak is preferable to a lifetime of heartbreak. You might wish to thoroughly consider your choices while praying before making a choice. Keeping this in mind, decisions are what ultimately define us.
1. Keep your future and destiny in mind
When falling in love, it is crucial to keep the future in mind. Can you envision him or her in your future? Is faith in harmony? Are there tasks that must be completed jointly in destiny?
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2. Think about your genotype
As an illustration, AS and AS are off-limits. Avoid deep commitments before learning about your genetics.
A few days of suffering and heartbreak are preferable to a lifetime of suffering and regret.
When To Think About Breaking Up
3. If they have not repented of their sins
If he or she is an atheist or a believer who still engages in frequent sin and shows no sign of repentance. The things of God are treated lightly, and no attempts are being made to get closer to God. He or she is not a churchgoer. You might avoid having a regretful future if you break up.
4. If a person has numerous character defects
Although nobody is flawless, some character defects cannot be overlooked. A break would be preferable if the person abuses alcohol, tobacco, womanizing, fraud, or violence in any way.
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5. If the love isn’t genuine
A breakup is a better alternative if the love is imbalanced and he or she loves you for what he or she can obtain from you. The partnership has no genuine foundation.
When To Think About Breaking Up
6. If there is widespread parental and family opposition
If after prayers, attempts, and exhausting all feasible possibilities, there is still a strong parental disapproval despite prayers, you may wish to contemplate a breakup. In the long run, it may turn out to be direction.
Remember that as God’s child, He desires the best for us and our future.
Blunt truths about Intimacy are snippets culled from Kisses and Huggs Club Devotionals over the years. Today we continue from where we left off yesterday.
19. Ladies put up some electric fence around your bodies – a no-go zone to everybody except your husband
20. Ladies, you are not philanthropists. Stop donating your body to lustful escapades that will culminate in regret
21. There is a subtle dual operation of mammon spirit and perversion spirit you must violently resist in your life
22.. God created you in His image, not as an NGO. Stop all charitable acts of sex. Live with dignity and stay with your spouse
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23. You just met two hours ago. Now you are locked up in a sexual encounter. What a generation! Something is not quite right.
24. Intimacy is not for “settling” quarrels as singles. Verbal communication should not be replaced with sexual intimacy.
25. When you mess up, God wants you to own up and repent. Don’t be like Adam who offered God an excuse. Being truthful to God about your mistake engenders His mercy!
26. Now this is strange, when you ask God for forgiveness genuinely, He forgives and forgets! Total amnesia!
27. When you go back to ask for forgiveness again, He is wondering when that happened, because He already forgot!
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28. To all women that the crowd wants to stone, Jesus tells them, I don’t condemn you! Go and sin no more!
29. Can these bones live? Too far gone into a myriad of sexual perversion & yet God brings you back into His righteousness! The driest of bones can live again!
30. Her price is far above rubies… she would not sell her body or give in to sexual compromise because of some amount of money
31. A virtuous woman protects her husband by satisfying him always sexually. She does not defraud him.
32. A lady pays the price for sexual sanctity by saying No to pre-marital or adulterous sex
33. When you respect your body, others would have no choice but also to respect your body.
