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Pro 13:2-3 KJV
(2) A man shall eat good by the fruit of his mouth: but the soul of the transgressors shall eat violence.
(3) He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.

I want to write about something important this morning. It is a principle of the scripture and that which guarantees us daily victory in our daily work, in our relationship, marriage, and life generally.

It is what you say with your mouth. What you say with your mouth is very important because it will literarily give direction to your life! The words you say with your mouth are so powerful that they will overwhelm your life and seek to control the events of your life and love affair.

I believe it is for this reason that Jesus Christ said:

Joh 6:63 KJV
It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.

When you were born, you needed to make a sound. That would be the sign of life. If a baby refuses to make sounds, he gets some spankings. As the baby grows into a toddler, everybody expects the baby to start talking.

Words are formed eventually and that becomes a sign of growth. You needed to ask a lady out and she needed to respond with words before marriage can happen. Nobody proposes or reply a proposal with silence.

On the wedding day, vows of words are exchanged and those words are terms of the marital covenant. In a marital affair, constant, loving words must go on or the marriage will die. That is how important words could be.

To give your life to Jesus, some words must be confessed and that would be it! In the Spirit realm, words are so important and the devil knows this. That is why he seeks to feed you with negative thoughts so that you can verbalize them. The moment you verbalize that negativity, it becomes your experience. That will not be your portion in Jesus name.

So the question this morning is “what are you saying?”

The scripture above says when you keep your mouth, you keep your life. Watch what you say!

Don’t make statements like:

“I don’t even understand my life.” (You will never understand it when you keep saying that)

“I am very confused” (You just invited the spirit behind confusion to have legal entry into your soul)

“I think there is a curse working against me” (You just empowered the devil to operate)

Never say the wrong words. Never use wrong words on your fiancée or your spouse!

Don’t say words like, “you are very stupid!”

Don’t say to your wife that she is slow.

Don’t call your husband an irresponsible man.

Potential Wife, don’t cut your potential husband into two with your mouth. There is a difference between a wife and a knife!

Husbands-to-be, don’t hurt and wound your wife-to-be with insensitive words, words mean a lot to them.

There are parents who call their children, “coconut head!”

How will the child be brilliant with that prophecy when you know the only thing inside a coconut is water? Or don’t you know that as parents, whatever you call your children is like a prophecy into their future?

Don’t say to your wife, “Fat lazy woman, you were once slim and beautiful when I found you, but now, you are….” Guess who turned her that way? Rather than say that, go and enroll her in a gym!

Don’t say to your husband, “It is the greatest error of my life marrying you,” I regret ever knowing you!” Rather than say that, pray for him, because you are one!

As singles, if you are enduring verbal abuse daily, don’t close your eyes and walk like a zombie into that relationship. Seek help, because he might not change, in fact, it will often get worse after marriage because marriage doesn’t change anybody.

If the lady you want to marry is always shutting you down for whatever reason, it is defective, seek help and seek counseling!

Words are very important! Don’t tell me somebody loves you when he or she tears you apart with words that demotivate and weaken you daily!

I am speaking the right words to help my love affair

Pray that God will give you the wisdom to speak rightly always.

Pro 10:19 MSG
The more talk, the less truth; the wise measure their words.

Analyze your love affair and check if you have been speaking the right words

Prov 10