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Continued from yesterday…

4. He does not want you to place your career/work above your relationship with him.

God comes first. That is the order and that is how to make a success of your career.

God wants you to follow the principles as outlined in His word because true prosperity comes from following Him. Your business acumen is nothing compared to His wisdom.

Look at what the bible says in Matthew 6:33;

Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.  –Matthew 6:33 (MSG)

5. He does not want you to place your career/work above your wife and children.

After God comes your family before your career. Make sure you devote time and attention to your family. Money will not fill that gap. Your wife and family need your manly direction and presence.

6. He does not want you to abuse your wife or take advantage of her femininity.

He does not want you to physically or verbally abuse your wife and children. A good man will never hit his wife. If you have started doing that, you can stop and make a resolve in your heart, that no matter what, I will never hit my wife! That is how to be blessed of God.

Do you know that spiritually, when you hit your wife, you are hitting yourself? That is not a good place to be. And of course, there are some wives that beat up their husbands. That is even worse.

7. He does not want you spending more time with friends and colleagues than you spend with your family.

He does not want you keeping late nights unnecessarily. When you do that, emotional affairs can develop quickly and that is where adultery starts from.

8. He does not want you keeping secrets about you or your weaknesses from your wife.

Be open to your wife. Like my Pastor would often say, if somebody is winking at you, tell your spouse first. You know what? Immorality is perpetuated in secrecy. The power of iniquity is broken when exposed.

The moment you share it with your spouse, the problem is half solved. If you like the way a certain person dresses, tell your wife to dress same way. Be open, communicate well and that will help your marriage a lot. Remember this golden truth, the moment you can hide it from her, it is the beginning of trouble!

God is my strength. He will guide me in the right path.

Lord, I ask that you open my eyes of understanding in Jesus name

Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. – Ephesians 5:33 KJV

Take an inventory of your life in the light of God’s principles



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