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The Three Most Important Rooms In Your Marriage. A few years back, President Buhari was asked about his wife’s interview in which she made some statements that showed her displeasure with her husband’s decisions.

In his reply, President Buhari said he doesn’t know which party his wife belongs to, but he knows she belongs to his kitchen, his living room, and the other room.

The president was taken up on this and many expanded, amplified, and even dragged the statement beyond its original intention.

Let’s take a look at these rooms one after the other.

The Kitchen

In the physical realm, it is so much a vital part of the house. You couldn’t do without it.

Yes, the woman is always there, but a good man will often be found there as well.

In the kitchen, food is prepared.

In the spiritual milieu, the kitchen is where revelation is cooked. It is a place you don’t joke with and both husband and wife have better belong there.

Without constant “cooking” in this place, the inner man will be famished and results will be defective.

The Living Room

Here is a public place for the family. Everybody comes together in the living room. When Daddy wants to talk to everybody, it will probably be in the living room.

Everybody must have a place where you meet with divinity. Everybody must have a place where you meet with God. Everybody must have a living room where you talk to God.

The Other Room

This room is only for Daddy and Mummy. The other room is for those who are married.

Singles should never have the other room, and should never visit the other room. As singles, if you go to the other room, “other” things can take place that you will not be proud of.

Yes, the woman belongs to the other room. The wife can even delegate the kitchen to some domestic help, she can have the luxury of time off from the living room, but her role in the other room cannot be delegated.

Her functions in the other room are so pivotal to her husband’s productivity in the board room.

The temperature in the other room should be kept hot. The other room should be alive.

As a wise wife, you should make sure that your husband never has the luxury of having another “other room” outside the matrimonial home.

When a man is dissatisfied in the other room, disorder and chaos await him.

Christian wives, don’t be over-spiritual!

The gas cooker belongs to the kitchen.

Chairs and seats belong to the living room.

But what is needed in the other room is the bed!

Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled!

On your wedding date, you were licensed to enter the other room. Focus on each other and enjoy yourselves sexually!

God will more likely answer the prayers of a sexually satisfied couple than that of couples denying each other! Read your Bible very well.

God bless you today!

I am wise. I am focused on the things of God. I am not confused


Lord, teach me to be wise

1 Corinthians 7:5 (AMP)Do not refuse and deprive and defraud each other [ of your due marital rights ], except perhaps by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves unhindered to prayer. But afterwards resume marital relations, lest Satan tempt you [ to sin ] through your lack of restraint of sexual desire.

Give your spouse a treat 

Psalms 92-93


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