Ten Statements You Should Not Say To Your Lover

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Words are powerful. It is interesting to know that our world is created by our words. Your micro world as well, guess what, was fashioned by your words.

Words are so powerful that what you say eventually overwhelms you and give direction to your life.

It is in the regard that the scripture says:

“Take this most seriously: A yes on earth is yes in heaven; a no on earth is no in heaven. What you say to one another is eternal. I mean this.

Mat 18:18 (MSG)

Words are so powerful that even the heavenlies respond to your words and statements.

Angels, as powerful as they are, the scripture declares that they listen and act on the WORDS of God in your mouth.

If you keep saying life is tough, guess what will happen to you.
If you keep saying marriage is tough, guess what you are building with words.
If you keep saying all men are scum, guess what the experience will be.

Your life simply gravitates in the direction of that which you speak.

In your relationship therefore, you want to be careful and deliberate about what you say to your lover, especially when you are angry or livid.

You want to abstain from such statements as below:

1. Our relationship is over
2. I know you cannot change
3. You are frustrating my life
4. You are such a negative force in my life
5. Since we met, it has been one problem or the other and I know that is what it will be forever
6. One day, I know our relationship will be over
7. I know this is never going to lead to marriage
8. I regret the day I met you
9. There is bad luck hovering around you
10. There is a curse following you and it is affecting me

Avoid any statement that looks like the above. As you begin to train your mouth, your life will come into alignment with God.

Have a great day.

My words are seasoned with salt

Lord, help me to speak the right words

Colossians 4:6 (NLT): “Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.”

Watch what you are saying to your lover

Col 4

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By Dunamis Okunowo

Facilitator at Kisses and Huggs Club. Pastor at Shouts of Grace Center, Ibadan. Pastor,  Father, Mentor, Writer, Husband.

2 thoughts on “Ten Statements You Should Not Say To Your Lover

  • Echelon styles -

    Lord, help me to speak the right words. My words are seasoned with salt🙏

  • Idowu Bolanle Adenike -

    My words are seasoned with salt and I know what to say per time in Jesus name. Amen

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