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I love the way our Eastern brothers usually refer to their wives. They will say “My Woman!”

Well, your wife is your woman. She is yours and no other. So you simply take care of her.

“Oh yeah, Pastor, I am taking care of her.’

“Have you really asked her and engaged her to know her definition of being cared for?

It may be way different from what you think.

What a woman interprets as care is often influenced by a lot of factors which may include background, parental upbringing, schools attended, church attended, personality type, temperament, past experiences, and so many other factors.

This is where communication becomes really important.  Talk about how she wants to be taken care of.

For some wives, it’s to take them out to eat in some fancy restaurants.

For some, it’s to take them out to see a movie.

For some, it’s to buy a surprise gift.

For others, it’s to discuss the gift to be bought. For example, my wife doesn’t like surprises. She wants to know and be involved in whatever you want to do. Your own wife may be different.

For others, it’s to sit down and talk with them.

For some, it’s to write them a cheque.

For some, it’s to go on a dream vacation.

Whatever it is, ensure you pay the price in the place of pleasing and taking care of your wife.

May God enable us to be good spouses to our loved ones.

I know how to take care of my wife.

Ask for divine wisdom to take care of your wife

Matt 19:16 (AMP) So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

Ask your wife what taking care of her means to her

Matt 19


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