Top 10 Qualities That Men Desire in a Woman

Top 10 Qualities That Men Desire in a Woman

Reading Time: 3 minutes

Top 10 Qualities That Men Desire in a Woman.

This is Part 1.

Hey there, ladies! Have you ever wondered what makes a man tick? What do they really want in a partner? Today, we’re going to dive into the top 10 qualities that men desire in a woman. And trust me, it’s not just about looks or physical attraction. There’s so much more to it!

1. Confidence.

Let’s face it, guys love a woman who exudes confidence. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about embracing your imperfections and owning them with poise. Confidence can be sexy!

How can a woman develop confidence? Firstly, a woman can build confidence by:

a. Focusing on what she’s good at and what she’s achieved.

b. Being kind to herself and taking care of her physical and emotional needs.

c. Surrounding herself with God, His Word, and with people who support and encourage her.

The Scripture declares in 1 Peter 3:3-4 that “What matters is not your outer appearance—the styling of your hair, the jewelry you wear, the cut of your clothes, but your inner disposition. Cultivate inner beauty, the gentle, gracious kind that God delights in.”

2. Intelligence.

Men are drawn to women who can hold their own in a conversation. This is one of the Qualities That Men Desire. They love a good debate, a witty remark, or a clever joke. So, don’t be afraid to show off your brainpower, ladies! A man wants a lady who he can talk to and engage in friendly banter and conversations.

Why do men leave a big and clearer television at home to go and watch a global match in a club in a less comfortable environment? It is because of those friendly conversations and banters! Ladies, develop yourself! Know one or two things about the club he loves. Learn to sustain conversations!

Men are attracted to women who are curious and interested in learning and who can hold intelligent conversations and share their own insights.

Proverbs 18:15 says “The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge, for the ears of the wise seek it out.”

To develop your intelligence as a lady, here are a few things you can do:

a. Read widely and often, exploring different topics and interests.

b. Engage in conversations with people from different backgrounds and industries.

c. Take classes or workshops to learn new skills and expand your knowledge.

d. Ask questions and seek to understand different perspectives.

3. Empathy.

Empathy is one of the Qualities That Men Desire in a Woman. Guys appreciate a woman who can understand their struggles, validate their emotions, and offer support. Be that safe haven for your partner, and watch your relationship flourish!

Men crave emotional connection and intimacy, just like women do. Men often feel like they’re not being heard or understood, especially when it comes to their emotions. 

When a woman can understand and validate a man’s emotions, it breaks traditional gender roles and stereotypes, allowing for a more equal and balanced relationship. These are some reasons why men crave such a woman who can provide these.

This is why it is good to pray to God before making marital decisions. There are some ladies who lack these qualities and yet they are on their way to developing them. In other words, they didn’t have it yet, but they inherently have all it takes to be that kind of woman. 

You see people change with time. A man has to be discerning. Conversely, there can be a woman who seems to possess these qualities, and yet it would be fleeting and temporary. When pressures come, she melts like a pot of stew!

Pray and pray very well to be led by God in making your decisions! Only God knows who will love you now and would still love you in another thirty or forty years! 

To be continued tomorrow.

I Want A Handsome Man

I Want A Handsome Man

Reading Time: 2 minutes

I Want A Handsome Man

She woke up with a start.  

Impulsively and almost uncontrollably, she bellowed “The blood of Jesus!”

His face scared her a little.

She had forgotten she got married a day before!

I want a handsome man!

He has to be fine!

I want a TDH – Tall, Dark, and Handsome!

Yes, all these are okay, handsome men are cool.

Besides, who wants to marry a man who makes you scream “the blood of Jesus” when you wake up in the morning as you behold his face?

You want to wake up in the morning, take a look at his face, and be filled with the Holy Ghost afresh, burst out in singing in tongues!

Isn’t that more wonderful?

However, handsomeness is not only about the face but also about the heart!

What is the point of a handsome face sitting upon a wicked heart? Click To Tweet 


And yet, this has been the lot of not a few!

There are handsome men who are wicked.

There are handsome men who are cheats.

There are handsome men who are evil.





There are handsome men that are rapists.

There are handsome men who are adulterers.

But there are handsome men who are good men and faithful men.

That is what you should pray for, that is what you should trust God for, that is what you should aspire for, and that is what you should settle for.

The face is the pulchritude, the heart is the hidden man.

Find out about the hidden man before you fall in love with the face.

His behaviors will not come from his handsome face, they would take source from the heart.

Beware of the heart that despises God.


Never fall in love with such hearts.

Beware of the heart that mocks God.

Beware of the heart that belittles your God.

Beware of the heart that disregards your God.

If he can disregard your God, he will disregard you!


Beware of a handsome face sitting upon an ugly heart.

The ugliness would eventually extend to the face in no time.

Beware of the handsome man who wants you to compromise your faith in order to satisfy his rush of adrenaline.

Beware of the one that can combine an ugly heart with a handsome face.

Fine man, but he beats his wife!
 
Handsome man, but irresponsible!

Lord, give me a spouse handsome within and without.


Lord, give a spouse beautiful within and without.

I pray for you, God will honor your prayers!

You will not regret your actions in Jesus’ name.

You will not spend the major part of your life agonizing and living in pain over a fine face, but an ugly heart.

God will guide you, lead you, and honor you in Jesus’ name.

You will not miss it!

For those who are already married, God will make your union a beautiful one within and without.

Psa 144:12-14 (KJV)  
That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; that our daughters may be as corner stones, polished after the similitude of a palace:  [13]   That our garners may be full, affording all manner of store: that our sheep may bring forth thousands and ten thousands in our streets:  [14]   That our oxen may be strong to labour; that there be no breaking in, nor going out; that there be no complaining in our streets.


So shall it be in Jesus’ name!

Your home will be blessed.

Your children will be blessed.

The works of your hands shall be blessed.


Join Whatsapp Channel


Partnership

GivingShow Love

Click To See Course


MasterClasses


Messages – Shouts of Grace Center


Daily & Weekly Meetings

21 Days FastRevive Daily Prayers Singles’ HubCouples’ HubJoin Whatsapp Channel

KHC, Ibadan – UI & Poly

Join KHC, UIJoin KHC, Poly, IbWhat is KHC?Register Free for DACSER

Courses For Singles

Pre-Wedding CounselingOvercome Delay Recovery From HurtsMarital Breakthrough

Courses For Couples

Ultimate Marriage Course31 Days ChallengeProfessional Marriage Therapy

Social Media Follows

InstagramFacebookTikTokYoutube Twitter

Upcoming Programmes

Click Below To See Details


5 Deepest Desires Of Every Woman

5 Deepest Desires Of Every Woman

Reading Time: 3 minutes

5 Deepest Desires Of Every Woman. The desires of ladies, women, and wives can be so amazing to men because of the male-female differences. Are you aware that men and women think and process differently?

1. Read My Body Language

Women love it when you can pick up everything about them. “How am I supposed to do that, when I am not the Holy Spirit?”

Well, it is about being sensitive and studying the one you claim you love and adore. Ladies are not sometimes good with words, but they are experts in non-verbal communication, so it can be painful when the husband in question is just insensitive!

A woman loves her husband to be able to sense her needs without having to communicate them!

So, husband, you’ve heard o!

However, ladies should communicate when it is obvious your husband is not picking up anything, it is better to talk than to suffer in silence.

5 Deepest Desires Of Every Woman

2. I need more foreplay
Now, this is specifically for MARRIED women! 

Husbands, learn to slow down so that your wife can always look forward to sex.

The lady requires more time for foreplay, much more than a man requires.

She may not say it, but that is the probable reason she is not enjoying the whole show as much as you would have wanted to. She needs an average of twenty minutes to be ready!

Singles ladies you don’t need foreplay for anything! You don’t need any play!

Follow this advice here:

Son 2:7 (MSG) Oh, let me warn you, sisters in Jerusalem, by the gazelles, yes, by all the wild deer: Don’t excite love, don’t stir it up, until the time is ripe—and you’re ready.

It is clear from that scripture. Don’t stir anything up. All those making out, kissing, and smooching are nothing other than afflictions.

3. Tell me I am beautiful and mean it from your heart 

By the time your wife asks you, “Am I beautiful? She had needed it so badly, she couldn’t help it.

As a good husband, part of your responsibility is to keep verbalizing and affirming your wife by telling her how beautiful she is and why you think she is beautiful. 

Don’t just admire her in your heart, say it!

For singles in courtship, it is okay to use good words and proclaim what you want to see in your future wife. Words are powerful, so use them to your advantage.

4. Surprise me with gifts or outings 

She loves gifts, especially shiny gifts.

A surprise from time to time will go a long way to show your love for your wife.

The gifts don’t have to be expensive, but consistent. This is applicable to both singles and married 

5. Pray for me and fill me with confidence
Every lady loves a praying man. A lady’s confidence and assurance that all will be well, skyrockets when her husband prays for her regularly. 

There is this rest that will surround her like a shield and give her assurance for the future.

So, dear husband, pray for your wife regularly.

Singles, pray more that have fun all over the place. The cinemas, the beach visits, the outings, and the Ice creams are all good, but they should not be done at the expense of spiritual exercises like praying!

These are the 5 Deepest Desires Of Every WomanMay your relationship and marriage be blessed.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my spouse

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, teach me to love my lover/spouse more 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
1Pe 3:7 (KJV)  Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

ACTION PLAN
Surprise your wife 

BIBLE READING
Hebrew 11 – 13


Join Whatsapp Channel


Partnership

GivingShow Love

Click To See Course


MasterClasses


Messages – Shouts of Grace Center


Daily & Weekly Meetings

21 Days FastRevive Daily Prayers Singles’ HubCouples’ HubJoin Whatsapp Channel

KHC, Ibadan – UI & Poly

Join KHC, UIJoin KHC, Poly, IbWhat is KHC?Register Free for DACSER

Courses For Singles

Pre-Wedding CounselingOvercome Delay Recovery From HurtsMarital Breakthrough

Courses For Couples

Ultimate Marriage Course31 Days ChallengeProfessional Marriage Therapy

Social Media Follows

InstagramFacebookTikTokYoutube Twitter

Upcoming Programmes

Click Below To See Details


How To Show Respect To Your Spouse

How To Show Respect To Your Spouse

Reading Time: 2 minutes

COUPLES –

Against contrary opinions, respect in marriage is mutual. People are of the opinion that respect for the husbands is a big deal. Yes, it is. Just as men do not want to be disrespected in private or public, so also do women need a dose of respect.

Men can readily tell what a bruised ego is and in this part of the world, an average man will not tolerate being disrespected in any form, method, shape, or size. In other to have a relationship that is healthy and mutually beneficial, respect has to be mutual.

Some of us don’t even know when we are being disrespected. The gospel of men’s dominance has been preached for so long that women feel they are not worth much, that they are just worthless, less than good, helpless, weaker vessels.

Contrary, women have tremendous strength, ability, knowledge, wisdom, and great dexterity. It takes great strength to be a mother and give birth to a child. To keep a home, multitask, submit to your husband and stay married. All these take great strength.

But if we are going to have a healthy marriage relationship, we would know that submission to one another in the fear of God is essential. A man not submitted to Christ is a difficult man and hard to submit to.

This is not teaching or telling wives not to submit to their husbands. It is addressing the fact that marriage is meant to be mutually beneficial to both the husband and the wife.

What are the practical ways to show respect to yourselves in marriage?

I will write about that tomorrow.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My marriage is blessed in all ramifications.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will enable you to pay the price for the fullness of His blessings in your home.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Heb 13:4 [AMP]Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things. And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [all guilty of sexual vice] and adulterous.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Read a book on marriage

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 43-45


Join Whatsapp Channel


Partnership

GivingShow Love

Click To See Course


MasterClasses


Messages – Shouts of Grace Center


Daily & Weekly Meetings

21 Days FastRevive Daily Prayers Singles’ HubCouples’ HubJoin Whatsapp Channel

KHC, Ibadan – UI & Poly

Join KHC, UIJoin KHC, Poly, IbWhat is KHC?Register Free for DACSER

Courses For Singles

Pre-Wedding CounselingOvercome Delay Recovery From HurtsMarital Breakthrough

Courses For Couples

Ultimate Marriage Course31 Days ChallengeProfessional Marriage Therapy

Social Media Follows

InstagramFacebookTikTokYoutube Twitter

Upcoming Programmes

Click Below To See Details


How To Make Your Wife Happy And Love You Forever

How To Make Your Wife Happy And Love You Forever

Reading Time: 2 minutes

COUPLES – How To Make Your Wife Happy And Love You Forever

Mr. John is heavily frustrated. His wife is never happy. He has exhausted all the wisdom and skills in his arsenals, yet no hope. All his romantic antics have been displayed, all to no avail. He feels so incapable. What else can I do to make this woman happy?

Pleasing a woman really is not so much about doing so many things but doing what appeals to your wife specifically. Why do you need to ensure she is happy anyway? You need each other’s agreement to have spiritual potency. You need each other’s help to forge ahead as a couple. When she is happy, the home will be great too.

You see, the moment you prefer to hang out with the ‘boys’ rather than your wife, and you deliberately go home late, you are no longer in good terms with your wife and the devil can take advantage of that to bring all kinds of attacks, especially adultery.

Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. 
(Pro 5:18 KJV)

1. Listen to what she is really saying.

Don’t watch television or read newspapers while she is talking to you. For your wife, attention means a lot to her.

Women are not logical, rather, they are emotional. So her discourse with you might seem illogical, but if you want to make your wife happy and your home great, you must make time to listen to her.

This is very important! In some countries, there are people who work as ‘listeners’ and all they do is listen to women talk and they are paid on an hourly basis. This is to let you know how important it is. If you allow the driver or cook to become the listener, a love affair might erupt over time. Spend time with her a lot.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my spouse dearly. I will honour my spouse in all ways.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I receive grace to love my spouse dearly and to be faithful to him/her.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. (Mal 2:15 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Surprise your spouse today by doing one of those things you use to do that made him/her happy when you were courting.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezek 9-12


Join Whatsapp Channel


Partnership

GivingShow Love

Click To See Course


MasterClasses


Messages – Shouts of Grace Center


Daily & Weekly Meetings

21 Days FastRevive Daily Prayers Singles’ HubCouples’ HubJoin Whatsapp Channel

KHC, Ibadan – UI & Poly

Join KHC, UIJoin KHC, Poly, IbWhat is KHC?Register Free for DACSER

Courses For Singles

Pre-Wedding CounselingOvercome Delay Recovery From HurtsMarital Breakthrough

Courses For Couples

Ultimate Marriage Course31 Days ChallengeProfessional Marriage Therapy

Social Media Follows

InstagramFacebookTikTokYoutube Twitter

Upcoming Programmes

Click Below To See Details