Three Types Of Men Ladies Need To Know About – Part 2

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Jun 6, 2022 | Singles

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SINGLES – Three Types Of Men Ladies Need To Know About

Continued from yesterday…

2 SCAVENGERS

They capitalize on the weaknesses of ladies with low self esteem. They weaken already weak ladies. They take advantage of their weaknesses.

They have a way of locating needy ladies and low self esteem ladies who will offer their body endlessly in order to get love which will forever remain elusive.

The scavenger is not looking for love or romance, he is simply looking for intercourse, and he will feign love and care to get what he wants. The day he stops getting that, he moves on, and the lady is left heartbroken.

What the scavenger does not know is that life is all about seed, time and harvest! He has unwittingly sown bad seeds and the harvest will spring up in time.

How do you avoid a scavenger? Learn new creation realities. Know who you are in Christ. Meditate on his word and develop God-confidence.

What do you do as a single if you find yourself here? Stop offering your body! Your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost. Start over and get out of all ungodly relationships

3 GARDENERS

These are the real men and I know this is where you belong! They cultivate their women, make them blossom, fruitful and bring out the best in them.

Ladies, you are like a fruitful vine, tender, yet full of great potentials. You have the responsibility of watching where and who plants you.

The environment (relationship) you agree to get involved with determines whether you will blossom or not.

Is the guy you are going out with a hunter? Is he always draining you financially, telling you it’s ok, promising to marry you? Is he a scavenger? He knows your story of abuse, low self esteem, that you have been deflowered and he feels he is the next person to sleep with you?

Make sure you do not enter into a relationship until you can vouch that the guy is a ‘gardener’, ‘a real man’, a ‘groom’, someone who will cultivate you, lead you and take you on a journey of self discovery and self confidence.

You can do it by God’s grace, if you trust and seek his help.

Always remember this, the wisdom you need to resolve the present issue lies with God.

I pray for you this day that God will surround you with His love.

Ladies, you will blossom in Jesus name. You will burst forth with full manifestation of your gifting in Jesus name.

Men, receive grace and wisdom to be the best that God has called you to be over your wife and your home! Three Types Of Men Ladies Need To Know About

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not fall into the hands of a hunter or scavenger. I am a a fruitful vine.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father I receive help to be all you desire me to be. I refuse to be the object of abuse of any man.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
‘Thy wife shall be like a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house’ Ps.128:3

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Get yourself out of any abusive relationship. Seek advice and help where necessary.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezek 16-20

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What A Wife Wants From Her Husband – Part 2

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Jun 23, 2021 | Couples

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Yesterday, we started on the topic what a wife wants from her husband, and we listed four points that men ought to take note of.

We said a woman wants
1. A head, not a headache
2. A protector, not a manipulator
3. A caring husband, not a scary one, and
4. A praying husband, not a preying one.

Today, I will tell you two more things every wife wants from her husband.

5. A gardener, not a scavenger
Every woman is like a garden of treasures. When a gardener is through working on a garden, there is order. When a scavenger is through, there is disorder. A gardener nurtures, a scavenger ruptures! A gardener prepares the garden for productivity; a scavenger is looking for what’s in it for him. It is a whole world of difference! A scavenger wants to raid your garden and if as a single you are involved with one, it’s time you send him parking and close your gate!

6. A romantic husband, not a sarcastic one
Women love it when their husbands are romantic. All the things a man used to do and say while he is wooing them, they want it to continue. If the man is wise, he will oblige to that. Ladies don’t like abusive men, men who use them as joke objects all the time, identifying and poking at their weaknesses rather than emphasize their strengths! It is not a good idea when you are inspired to crack some dry jokes directed at your wife each time you see her!

You will lose her gradually doing that! Rather, learn her love language and speak that language! If what it will take for you to have a good home is to help her a little in the kitchen, then do it!

As a young couple, I would bathe our boys from when they were just four days old! My wife loved that, so I took it upon myself to do that for all the boys till they were old enough to take care of themselves. Those were the early years when I had not started writing devotionals and I had time in the mornings.

Now, that may not resonate with you, and your wife might not even want to trust you with a four-day-old baby, but find something you can do to make her happy! That is how to be a man!

May God bless our marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I receive the wisdom of God to advance my marriage

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father, help me to be a husband indeed.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life (Proverbs 31:11-12 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Support your spouse all the way.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ps 128

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