Your Greatest Tool in Marriage

Your Greatest Tool in Marriage

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Marriage is the place where you will have to come to terms with the practicality of forgiveness. In other relationships, forgiveness is also essential but it may not be as that of marriage.

In marriage, you will have to forgive for the relationship to be healed. You and your spouse cannot avoid each other. You live together, have children together, for the sake of peace and progress, forgiveness is very necessary.

The standard of the Word of God is so high. That’s why it is a narrow road that leads to heaven.

The Bible does not mince words when we are told to love our enemies. Hmmm. I thought we should love our friends and well wishers and stay clear and avoid our enemies.

The bible tells us to love them, and bless those who curse us. That is pretty hard. A hard pill to swallow. I believe that is why we have to live in the spirit so we do not gratify the lust of the flesh.

We need Holy Ghost power. We cannot do it in our own natural strength.

But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; – Matthew 5:44 KJV

Our differences will most often act as threat to our marital union and our mandate as couples. It will pose a problem to our becoming one.

The natural man tends to be selfish and only one that is submitted to Christ and His word can love genuinely.

It is easier for women to hold on to hurts and have difficulty in forgiving. Women hurt deeply essentially because they are emotional being and because they analyse more.

Whichever way, let God be true and every man a liar. The standard of God’s word must be followed. A different gospel is not for men and another for women. We are to follow and obey the same word.

We should allow the Holy spirit to rightly discern the situation and analyse it for us.

God is not saying we should not be hurt, angry or need time to heal. We should do that and then get over it and move on.

That’s where power lies. That’s where victory begins. The Word says we should be angry but we are not permitted to sin.

We sin when we over analyse. There is a spirit way to analyse things that instead of being bitter, we become better.

When we allow bitterness, we open the door for other demons to enter our lives and afflict us. Disobedience opens the door for the enemy of our souls. We open the door for sicknesses, diseases, poverty, disfavor etc.

Joseph could have wasted his life being bitter. He could have lost years by being bitter. He could have lost opportunities. But he choose to enjoy where he was on his way to being better and to where God was taking him to.

Joseph saw his brothers who sold him into slavery and he analysed the situation well by the help of the Holy spirit.

He said what they meant for evil, God used it to preserve many lives. Can you allow that situation to become a tool in the hands of God?

I’m not saying it will be easy. That’s what taking up your cross daily and following God is about.

Couples, learn to give that situation to God. You are reviled, persecuted, unjustly treated, abused, afflicted, cheated etc. Surrender it to the Lord. Give it to Him.

Allow the Holy spirit to make you see what it really is. Until Joseph saw correctly, he could not forgive and forget.

Jesus was able to pass through the cross because he saw well. For the joy set before Him, He endured the cross.

He could say father forgive them,for they know not what they are doing.

God is able to turn things around and make your mess a message that will liberate thousands.

Don’t fight your spouse, forgive and move on. Learn what you are to learn. Don’t be afraid of being misjudged or treated unfairly. Jesus was wrongly and falsely accused. He shut His mouth and didn’t answer back. It was tough, but at the end, He was justified and glorified

Ask the Lord to help you see well and He will come to your aid.

God bless your marriage


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How To Keep Foolishness Away From Your Home

How To Keep Foolishness Away From Your Home

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Wisdom is powerful. In life, you are either operating in foolishness or wisdom. That is why the scripture talks about the wise virgins and the foolish virgins. It is such a thin line that one can easily cross the line from wisdom to foolishness when care is not taken.

In the case of the five wise virgins and five foolish virgins, they were all born again and they all were expecting the bridegroom. They all go to church. They all have their lamps with them and the scripture says the word of God is a lamp unto our feet.

They all had oil in their lamps. We know that oil is a type of the Holy Spirit. They all know something about the Holy Spirit. They were all spiritual to an extent. We know that the parable is talking about believers because the scripture says

Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom. – Mat 25:1 KJV

What made the five virgins foolish? The scripture tells us.

And five of them were wise, and five were foolish. They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them: But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps. – Mat 25:2-4 KJV

You can be attending service, be a worker, be all over the place, and yet be operating in foolishness! The foolish took their lamp but no oil. The wise took OIL IN THEIR VESSELS plus the oil in their lamps.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
Lord, I receive the wisdom to run my home.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will give you the wisdom to stay in His presence

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Mat 25:5 KJV While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Cut off your association with any person, place, or thing that is influencing you negatively.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 19-21


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What To Do When Trouble Comes Knocking

What To Do When Trouble Comes Knocking

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There are different types, kinds, shades and forms of trouble in life and of course in marriage.
Some of these troubles we face in marriage are due to our carelessness most of the times, while others are just the devil wanting to stir up issues.

Whichever way, God has told us how to handle troubles in His word.

I must admit that there are some troubles or challenges that are so bigger than us. There is no way we can come out of them successfully without God intervening.

King David, even though he was God’s beloved Psalmist, faced different situations way bigger and stronger than him. The good news is that God brought him over them all.

When troubles comes, at whatever season in our marriage, if we are believers, we are assured victory.

Some challenges are spiritual and must be dealt with by engaging in spiritual warfare. Whether they are in-law issues, financial, child birth, barrenness, betrayal, infidelity issues, health issues or we just noticed some resistance on our way, or there are constant quarrels between us as couples that really has no basis, or any other attack on our marriage, it calls for spiritual warfare.

That is the time we should deal with and take charge of whatever strange oppressive spirit from the devil that wants to destroy our marriages.

We must know how to intercede for our marriages more than anything else. We fight on our knees.

The bible says

For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ; – 2 Corinthians 10:3 – 5 KJV

Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. – James 4:7 KJV

Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you. – Luke 10:19 KJV

Our major work is to bind the wrong spirit behind such issues and loose the power of God. We come against the different spirits causing troubles for us and not allowing us to enjoy peace, love and joy in our marriage.

Some problems are not with the third party, but with our spouses. You have to learn to take charge and exercise authority over such anti peace, anti unity spirit. All they are after is to cause division, disunity, distress and fight in the marriage.

Also praying for the eyes of the understanding of the other party to open is important.

That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him: The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints, – Ephesians 1:17 – 18 KJV

By the time you have engaged in spiritual warfare, God promised victory. The victory may not come the way we we want, but victory is sure and peace will be restored into our marriage.

God bless our marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My marriage is blessed.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Ask for wisdom to handle marital troubles

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you. – Luke 10:19 KJV

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Take authority over the devil.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 1


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The Importance of Your Spirituality

The Importance of Your Spirituality

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Your spirituality is very important! It is very important to your advancement in life. Your spiritual life is a very important part of you.

Part of your activities to advance includes reviewing your spiritual life and asking yourself the following questions

1. Did you create a time for prayers? If yes, how well did you keep to this time?
How long did you spend in prayers?
Did you pray in the Holy Ghost and for how long?

2. How many times did you fast this year? From morning till afternoon? Morning till evening? Weekly? Monthly? 

3. How many times did you attend church?

4. Do you serve in your church as a worker?

5. Did you pay tithes and give offerings?

6. How many times did you read the Bible? Or even opened it?

These are just some questions that can guide you in making better decisions concerning your spiritual life.

May the Lord guide you. Amen.

Prayer:
Lord, I desire to make better spiritual decisions in my life. Help and guide me as I do so. Amen.

Action point:
Go through all these questions, add yours to them and answer them as truthfully as you should.

Declaration:
I am making wise decisions by the help of the Holy Spirit.

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How To Change Your Results In Marriage – Part 3

How To Change Your Results In Marriage – Part 3

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Continued from yesterday

In summary, these are a few pragmatic things to do when you want a change.


1. Give your life to Jesus Christ genuinely and ensure every member of your family does.

2. Find a Bible-believing church and join the foundation class, with intention of becoming a worker. Do not go to church to seek miracles only, let your motivation be to grow in the things of God.

3. Never miss reading God’s word daily. Find scriptures that address that area where you need change. That is what will renew your mind.

4. From what you read daily, pick one or two verses to meditate on daily. You can do it with your spouse.

5. Go for water baptism by immersion

6. Go for Holy Ghost Baptism with evidence of speaking in tongues. This is the power of Christianity and it is the power of the Holy Spirit that gives you dominion over sin.

7. Pray in the Spirit often

8. Have a close mentor for accountability’s sake. Somebody you and your spouse can access one on one or via phone that will keep you on your toes and help guide you in major decisions.

Your mentor is not the one that pursues you; you are the one that pursues him because he usually has many protégées. I do this for quite a number of people and help mentor their marriage.

9. Serve in any capacity in God’s house and be sensitive to give when God asks you to.

10. You and your spouse should do a personal retreat from time to time.

CONFESSION OF THE DAY
My mind is being renewed daily by God’s Word and the power of the Holy Spirit.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father in the name of Jesus, I pull down every stronghold in my mind that is keeping me bound to low life.

THOUGHT OF THE DAY
Phil 4: 13 ‘I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me’.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Take relevant scriptures in the area you need renewal in your mind and begin to study, meditate and speak them to yourself.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ps 115


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