men’s psychology

10 Reasons Men Often Delay (And How to Navigate It) – Part 2

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 2, 2025 | Singles and Married

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This devotional is a continuation from yesterday. If you missed it, go here

5. Overwhelmed with Responsibilities:

Life’s pressures—work, finances, family obligations—can leave men feeling overwhelmed and unable to commit further. Philippians 4:6-7 encourages us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, present your requests to God.” Supporting him spiritually can lighten his load. Being overwhelmed is another reason why men often delay decisions.

6. Lack of Clarity:

Sometimes, men delay because they lack clarity about what they want or where the relationship is headed. James 1:5 promises, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault.” Encourage open conversations while trusting God for direction.

7. Fear of Losing Freedom:

Commitment requires sacrifice, and some men often delay for fear of losing their independence. Remind him that true freedom comes from surrendering to God’s plan. Galatians 5:1 says, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.”

8. Avoidance of Conflict:

Men may delay addressing issues to avoid uncomfortable conversations or potential conflict. However, unresolved problems only grow worse. Proverbs 27:5-6 states, “Better is open rebuke than hidden love.” Gentle honesty can help resolve tension constructively.

9. Testing Compatibility:

Some men delay commitment because they’re still assessing whether the relationship is right. Amos 3:3 asks, “Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?” Building mutual understanding and shared values can reassure both partners.

10. Misaligned Priorities:

For some, career, hobbies, or other pursuits take precedence over relationships. A man who prioritizes worldly success over relational health may need redirection. Matthew 6:33 reminds us, “Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” Encourage him to align his priorities with God’s will.

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10 Reasons Men Often Delay (And How to Navigate It)

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 1, 2025 | Singles and Married

Reading Time: 2 minutes

In relationships, one common frustration women express is that men often delay —whether it’s making decisions, committing to the next step, or addressing important issues. While every man is different, there are recurring patterns and reasons behind these delays. Understanding why men often delay can help foster patience, communication, and growth in your relationship.

Here are 10 reasons men often delay and how faith can guide you through these challenges.

1. Fear of Failure:

Many men often delay because they fear they won’t measure up or succeed. Whether it’s proposing, starting a family, or taking on a new responsibility, the pressure to “get it right” can paralyze them. Proverbs 29:25 reminds us, “Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe.” Encourage him to trust God rather than his own abilities.

2. Uncertainty About Readiness:

Some men often delay because they genuinely don’t feel ready for the next step. This could stem from financial concerns, emotional maturity, or life goals that aren’t aligned yet. Ecclesiastes 3:1 teaches, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” Trusting God’s timing can ease anxiety about readiness.

3. Past Wounds:

Unresolved pain from past relationships or personal struggles can cause hesitation. If he’s been hurt before, he may need time to heal before moving forward. Psalm 147:3 assures us, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Pray for his healing and offer grace as he processes his emotions. These wounds are one reason why men often delay commitment.

4. Desire for Perfection:

Men often delay because they’re waiting for the “perfect” moment or solution. But perfectionism isn’t realistic—or biblical. Matthew 5:48 calls us to strive for godliness, not flawlessness. Help him focus on progress over perfection.

I will conclude on this topic tomorrow. Don’t miss it.