The Honour Code For Wives

The Honour Code For Wives

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I am sure Peter must have settled a lot of quarrels for many wives. Many felt invaded or, cheated, and that it’s just not fair being a woman.

They felt they had no rights and they are being trampled upon. Apostle Peter must have had compassion for them. Trying to solve their problems; which varied in dimensions, and seemly complicated.

He, by the Holy Spirit’s inspiration, gave this one all-purpose solution. If every wife follows this instruction they will solve all their marital issues and problems.

I got to a point in my life where I realized this very truth.

The instruction is in 1 Peter 3: 1-6, it is what I call the Honor code for all wives.

In like manner, you married women, be submissive to your own husbands [subordinate yourselves as being secondary to and dependent on them, and adapt yourselves to them], so that even if any do not obey the Word [of God], they may be won over not by discussion but by the [godly] lives of their wives, When they observe the pure and modest way in which you conduct yourselves, together with your reverence [for your husband; you are to feel for him all that reverence includes: to respect, defer to, revere him–to honor, esteem, appreciate, prize, and, in the human sense, to adore him, that is, to admire, praise, be devoted to, deeply love, and enjoy your husband]. Let not yours be the [merely] external adorning with [elaborate] interweaving and knotting of the hair, the wearing of jewelry, or changes of clothes; But let it be the inward adorning and beauty of the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible and unfading charm of a gentle and peaceful spirit, which [is not anxious or wrought up, but] is very precious in the sight of God. For it was thus that the pious women of old who hoped in God were [accustomed] to beautify themselves and were submissive to their husbands [adapting themselves to them as themselves secondary and dependent upon them]. It was thus that Sarah obeyed Abraham [following his guidance and acknowledging his headship over her by] calling him Lord (master, leader, authority). And you are now her true daughters if you do right and let nothing terrify you [not giving way to hysterical fears or letting anxieties unnerve you]. -1Peter 3: 1-6 (AMP)

The instructions here are very profound, yet simple and well spelled out.

I want to admit it won’t come naturally to obey this. You will only obey when you give heart to it, study it and spend time meditating on it, study every word and prayerful soak them onto your spirit.

I pray God grants us strength to be doers and not hearers only deceiving ourselves.

God bless your marriage

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a wise wife, I obey the scriptures, and I honour my husband

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, please work on my heart not to reject your word at any point in time

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes.  -1 Peter 3:1-3 (NIV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Meditate on 1Peter 3: 1-6

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
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How To Build Your Marriage Through Honour

How To Build Your Marriage Through Honour

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Do you honour God daily? Do you know that there is a relationship between honouring God and making your marriage work?

When you honour God, trust me, you are going to have His favour and mercy work for you in every way. In the same way, when you dishonour God, things are going to get real though. The ways of a transgressor are hard.

How do you honour God?

Read, study and meditate on God’s word regularly. You need that for your spiritual health. Have it regimented into your life and do it daily. Start your day with that. That is simply honouring God!

Go to church. Fellowship with believers! That is simply honouring God!

Pay your tithe. Give to God. That is simply honouring God!

Somebody says, “I am confused in my marriage. The panacea is God’s word. It will cause light to shine over your soul. It will give you direction and lead you on the right path.

Do you have troubles in your marriage? The answer is in God’s word, not in weeping profusely or looking for pity parties. Stop getting depressed daily, rather get energized in God’s word!

Do you also know that just by staying in God’s word, you can avoid adulterous relationships?

Decide to honour God in your marriage and you will see Him come to your aid.

Selah!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
God’s word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Open my eyes to wondrous truths in your word, O Lord

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psalms 119:105 [MSG] By your words I can see where I’m going; they throw a beam of light on my dark path.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Get into God’s word now and ask the Holy Spirit to open your eyes.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
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Pleasing Your Spouse Without Dishonouring God

Pleasing Your Spouse Without Dishonouring God

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In today’s devotional we’ll be looking at pleasing your spouse without dishonoring God, let’s take note of the following, they are not exhaustive.

  1. Do whatever your spouse loves
    Learning about love languages is not just for learning sake. It is so that you begin to do those things you discovered they love and enjoy. You must seek to become an intentional spouse and lover.

Loving your spouse by speaking their love language may not come naturally to you. You have to make efforts in pleasing your spouse. That’s when love comes with it being a choice, a decision, and a sacrifice.

  1. Seek wisdom
    Marriage is an institution where wisdom is required to be successful in it. Don’t ever assume you are a guru in understanding your spouse.

Some have made this mistake only to be awaken to the rude shock that their spouse have not really being happy for decades. That’s when the spouse seeks divorce after so many years and people are wondering what happened.

Seeking wisdom on various issues in your marriage is very vital. Read books about marriage. Hear veterans in the marriage institution talk and counsel you.

  1. Learn male / female differences
    God is a God of variety and multiplicity. As different as there are people, cultures, languages, food, nations, so wide are the differences between male and female.

Until you learn about these differences, you cannot fully understand or enjoy the uniqueness in the differences between you and your spouse.

  1. Get a mentor

The place of a mentor in your marriage is very crucial. There are some things you should learn not by experience but by the wisdom of those who have gone ahead of you.

You don’t have to learn through mistakes. Sometimes the mistake might be too costly. Avoid that route of heart ache and head ache. 

Get good mentors, seek their wisdom, listen to them, learn from them and obey their advice, their wisdom will help you in pleasing your spouse.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have understanding 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, bless my spouse 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psa 44:7 (KJV)  But thou hast saved us from our enemies, and hast put them to shame that hated us.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Praise Him today 

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Romans 8 – 10

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