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How To Deliver Yourself From Self Deception

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 30, 2022 | Singles

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SINGLES –

This morning, I feel inspired to write about a particular demonic strategy, a deadly attitude being embraced by many. This attitude is from the pit of hell. It holds its victims by the jugular, suffocating them with obvious but subtle strangulation techniques and yet distracting them from what is killing them. The result then is that they refuse to accept something is wrong when it is obvious to all that they are on the path of destruction.

Let no man deceive himself. – 1Co 3:18a

I am talking about self-deception! You see, deception can come from different sources, but the greatest and deadliest form of deception is self-deception.

The demon behind self-deception works hand in hand with other demons especially mammon spirits and religious spirits. So you can see a person who says she wants to sleep around in order to get money, after all she goes to church and serves there with her time and money!

Hence, most people that are self-deceived can be found in the beautiful auditoriums of our churches today, in the choirs and on the pew.

Do not be deceived and deluded and misled; God will not allow Himself to be sneered at (scorned, disdained, or mocked by mere pretensions or professions, or by His precepts being set aside.) [He inevitably deludes himself who attempts to delude God.] For whatever a man sows, that and that only is what he will reap. – Gal 6:7 AMP

It is only self-deception that will make a lady get involved in pre-marital affairs and then confidently sing in the choir the next day without blinking! You see such person is self-deceived, believing that her service to God will cover up for his or her ungodly life! It sounds incredible, but it is all over the place!

It is only self-deception that can make a man stand up from an adulterous bed and then go to church and condemn it from the pulpit!

It is self-deception that will make a man of God who has several branches under him and many looking up to him get involved with habitual adulterous life!

It is one thing to make a mistake, and anybody can fall, and people do fall. And God did make a provision to situations where people fall, to get them restored. But when it becomes habitual, I don’t really care how anointed the person is, there is an intertwining of self-deception demons and other demons oppressing that man!

He simply tells himself that God will overlook it since he is still having ‘result!

That is also a demonic strategy in itself, to make people develop a cold attitude to the things of God, to make them resent anything called pastors or church and thereby shutting them away from where they can get help. The result is that bondages and captivities are elongated and perpetuated!

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I severe myself from all ungodly relationships in Jesus name.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I receive God’s help to be free in Jesus name. Lord, send help to me now in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Joh 8:36 (AMP) So if the Son liberates you [makes you free men], then you are really and unquestionably free.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Become accountable today to someone your respect and value a lot.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Est 1-5

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How To Enjoy The Other Room In Marriage

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Jun 1, 2021 | Couples

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Yes, we need to take foreplay to another level. It is very possible to enjoy the other room in marriage

Foreplay is so relaxing, soothing, and rejuvenating. After such a tiring day, there is nothing as good as good love-making preceded by good foreplay.

I like the fact that it is therapeutic in nature. The release of hormones makes it a good medicine and it is also a good exercise.

I know some married couples don’t have it as good. So I would like to address both husband and wife.

First, to those who are not really enjoying or having it regularly.

Whatever issue is causing you not to have regular love-making is demonic and an attack from the pit of hell. You cannot be married and be sleeping in different rooms. It’s simply unacceptable.

Such things as he snores, she snores, he has body odour or she has body odour are not enough reasons to abandon your spouse. What matters is that you are married, you two have become one flesh and nothing should separate you.

It is abnormal for a guy not to have it with his wife when he is not sick. For a man, it is more of releasing tension. Without regularity, he can’t really function as he should.

So see whatever is preventing you from having it in marriage as an attack. Address it ruthlessly. Don’t say you can handle it or you don’t care. Divorce and adultery are the consequences of such neglect.

If you have to plan it and do like a timetable, do it. The fire must never go down in the bedroom. When the fire goes down in the bedroom, the whole home catches fire.

It should be regular. For a very busy couple at least once or twice a week is okay.

To those of us who are enjoying it, we should try to improve. There is always room for improvement. Find creative ways to satisfy each other.

Take your foreplay to another level. Spend time with each other. Explore each other’s bodies. A healthy love life makes you more productive, more relaxed, and more focused. You will be more coordinated.

Create the right atmosphere that will make you enjoy yourself. If you can get away, plan it out. Go to a hotel or a resort center just by yourself. Just like we do sometimes. Leave the children with someone reliable and take time out to enjoy yourselves. When you come back, you will be refreshed and more relaxed than before you went.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I give myself to my spouse

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help us in this area of life

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
1Co 6:16 (MSG) (paraphrased)There’s more to it than mere skin on skin. It is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, “The two become one.”

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Plan it and enjoy it

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 28, 55