Here Are Three Sources of Marital Delay

Here Are Three Sources of Marital Delay

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Delay is perceived as anything that doesn’t come at the expected time. Quickly this morning, I want to identify three sources of delay that could be experienced in relationships and marriages.

1. The delay that comes from you
Self-inflicted delays can come when you are just too impatient. God has a timetable for your life. When you alter that timetable by impatience and unnecessarily hurrying, one can actually cause delay.

Actually, and candidly speaking, hurrying up things eventually bring delay. These are what I call self-inflicted delays.

See the scripture:

…he that believeth shall not make haste.

Isa 28:16b (KJV)
  1. The delay allowed by God.
    God can also allow delay when He knows you are about to make a decision that will jeopardize your salvation, your joy, or which can bring any form of evil.

The Lord does not delay [as though He were unable to act] and is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is [extraordinarily] patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.

2 Peter 3:9 AMP

See another translation:

The Lord is not slow to do what he has promised, as some think. Instead, he is patient with you, because he does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants all to turn away from their sins.

2Pe 3:9 (GNB)

Since God does not want you to perish, what He can do is to allow delay in stubborn decisions you are about to take in other to save your soul. This kind can be brought about when you refuse to work on your character.

Constant attitude adjustment is pivotal to speed in your relationship and marital endeavors.

  1. Delay can come from the devil
    Finally, delay can also come from the devil. This is the work of the devil and it is not to be tolerated. It is to be refused, rejected, and resisted.
    Jesus has already destroyed the works of the devil.

The Son of God appeared for this purpose, to destroy the works of the devil. 1 John 3:8b AMP

I pray for you this morning, every spirit of delay is bound in your life in Jesus name.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will cooperate with the timing of God.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, do that which you are set to do in my life.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Ecclesiastes 3:11a He hath made every thing beautiful in his time:

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Trust God’s timing.

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No More Disappointments! It’s Over!

No More Disappointments! It’s Over!

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If you are a member of KHC, get ready to move! Yes, I hear the Spirit of God say, in areas of your lives where things have been static and stagnant, there is about to be a rumbling, and a movement that will turn every captivity around and put an end to disappointments!

Let’s take a look at this scripture that the Lord woke me up with.

And Moses said unto the people, Fear ye not, stand still, and see the salvation of the Lord, which he will shew to you today: for the Egyptians whom ye have seen today, ye shall see them again no more forever. (Exodus 14:13 KJV)

Moses was asking the people to stand still here. And some of you have stood still for a while.

You have fasted. You have prayed. You have done all you know to do. Things have stood still for a while. The man was not forthcoming. You couldn’t seem to find the right lady. The business has not been buoyant. Currency that is meant to flow stood still. Admission to higher institutions seemed pending.

But I love the next statement!

“…for the Egyptians whom ye have seen today, ye shall see them again no more forever.”

The failure you saw in the past months, you will see them no more!

The disappointments you saw in the past months, you will see them no more!

The abandonment, the jilting experiences, you will see them no more!

The strings of tragedies, the premature loss of loved ones, you will see them no more!

The reality of poverty and lack intertwined, you will see them no more!

The depression and despondency, the literal emotional upheavals, you will see them no more!

The rejection, the seemingly trail of curses, you will see them no more!

The delay, the disfavor, the loss of opportunities, you will see them no more!

Look at the next verse:

The Lord shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace. (Exodus 14:14 KJV)

You see, this year, God will fight for you! That is why He is saying Press forth! You want to ask, how will I press forth? Where are the resources? How will I do it? God says, keep shut your mouth and stop asking questions of doubt, I have got your back covered! Glory to God!

And the Lord said unto Moses, Wherefore criest thou unto me? speak unto the children of Israel, that they go forward: (Exodus 14:15 KJV)

Here God said, Look Moses, the people have stood still for a while, stop crying to me, take some action! Press forth! Go forward! Stop complaining and making doubtful statements, move!

Message translation says “…order them to get moving!”

I come in the name of the Lord and by the Spirit of God this morning and proclaim to all KHCites, “Get moving!” There is divine energy to move right now!

But lift thou up thy rod, and stretch out thine hand over the sea, and divide it: and the children of Israel shall go on dry ground through the midst of the sea. (Exodus 14:16 KJV)

Press forth this year! You will go on dry ground. The ground will not swallow you. This year, you will not slip under the ground. The ground has been solidified for you! The ground of marriage, the ground of business, the ground of academic achievement, the ground of professional careers, have been made ready for you!

Get moving this year. Write that book. Publish that material. Start that business. Start that blog! Press forth! Get married! Begin the idea!

The sea has been divided for you. The hindrances have been disgraced. The obstructions have been divided. The sea has been “unsead” That courtship that is almost becoming everlasting because of funds, you are about to press forth because God will supernaturally provide!

Get ready this year to Press forth!

Press forth into your destiny. Press forth into God’s plan for your life! I come with a trumpet in my mouth this morning, and I blow upon all KHCites, PRESS FORTH!

Quit looking back. The sinful and oppressive lifestyles of Egypt, should be relinquished. No more frolicking with demons of iniquity! No more locked in the false embrace of a guy or lady, no more covered with the sheets of sexual perversion, it is a new day!

It is a new day for you! Press forth!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am pressing forth this month! No more disappointments!

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, I receive energy to press forth in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
God will fight the battle for you. And you? You keep your mouths shut! ”
(Exodus 14:14 Message)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Write down areas where you need to look beyond disappointments and press forth!

BIBLE  READING FOR THE DAY
Heb 11




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