Why I Can’t Afford To Fail God In Marriage – Part 2

Why I Can’t Afford To Fail God In Marriage – Part 2

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Our part in the marriage covenant is to obey every instruction in the word of God. This should be your resolve, that your marriage before God is obeying Ephesians 5: 22-26, whether you feel like obeying or not, is not the issue. See what it says;

For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything. For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. –Ephesians 5:22-26 (NLT)

We also despise whatever we feel or think, which keeps us from obeying the scripture above, just as Jesus despised the shame of the cross. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Because of the joy awaiting him, he endured the cross, disregarding its shame. Now he is seated in the place of honor beside God’s throne. Necessity is laid on us to carry our cross of fulfilling our marriage covenant.

The Bible says;

If you refuse to take up your cross and follow me, you are not worthy of being mine. –Matthew 10:38 (NLT)

We become worthy of the sacrifice of Jesus when we carry our cross daily and follow Jesus. We carry our cross by obeying Him despite how or what we feel like or don’t feel like doing to and for our spouse.

Our marriage is a responsibility that we must not fail to fulfill, it is spelled out in Ephesians 5: 22-26. What husbands should focus on doing as well as what wives should focus on doing, each party must focus on his/her part of the deal.

We owe our spouse to appropriately respond to our part in our covenant with them. To make sure we provide a conducive environment that will not leave our spouse vulnerable to the attacks and lies of the devil.

We owe our spouses to conduct ourselves in such a way that makes them comfortable in our presence; we do this by being submissive, loving, caring, forgiving, available, etc.

We owe our spouses to be covenant partners in all ways and all aspects of our lives and existence, whether spiritual, in the soul realm, or physically.

We owe our spouses to surround them so that we shut the door against the senseless and foolish sin of adultery and every form of emotional affairs.

I pray God grants us understanding.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY:
I will not fail God and my Spouse, I keep the covenant of marriage, and I am a good wife/ husband

PRAYER FOR THE DAY:
Father in the name Jesus, I declare that I have the help of the Holy Spirit concerning my life and marriage

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY:
For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything. For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. –Ephesians 5:22-26 (NLT)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY:      
Make a list of the things you need to make amends on and start working on them.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY:
Genesis 16- 18

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Why I Can’t Afford To Fail God in Marriage

Why I Can’t Afford To Fail God in Marriage

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Apart from the fact that marriage is a wonderful relationship with the one you love, there is also the responsibility part. There is something always there to remind us of this truth. Yet for some of us, our flesh, stubborn self, ego, revenge, tit for tat, strife, and unforgiving spirit keep us constantly on loggerheads with our spouse.

When you view your marriage from another perspective, from the perspective of Covenant, it will change the way you approach your marriage.

My husband, during one of our midweek services, taught along this line. It was such a blessing and it changed my perspective about my marriage forever.

God is cutting a new covenant with His people. To God, our marriage is about the covenant and not just about our spouse.

And I will give them one heart and one purpose: to worship me forever, for their own good and for the good of all their descendants. And I will make an everlasting covenant with them: I will never stop doing good for them. I will put a desire in their hearts to worship me, and they will never leave me. I will find joy doing good for them and will faithfully and wholeheartedly replant them in this land. –Jeremiah 32:39 – 41 (NLT)

More so, God was in Christ when He cut a new covenant with us by His blood.  Jesus became both the offering and the offerer when He had to fulfill the demands of the law to set us free from death and its consequences. Jesus took the cross, suffered great agony, and endured such shame and pain that He might see us free.

When you begin to see your marriage as a vital part of you, and that Jesus paid the price for you, you will have no choice but to sit up.

Just like the Israelites, Pharaoh wanted to negotiate them out of taking their children, livestock, and all that belonged to them. They were wise enough to know that God was giving them a total and complete deliverance that include all they had.

Your marriage to God is all about the covenant. There is a higher purpose; there is a more important agenda in the father’s heart, which is total deliverance.

Jesus didn’t just die for our spirits not to be lost in hell. He died for everything about our lives; our health, children, marriage, finances, mental health, emotional life, everything.

We owe God to respond back in gratitude, faithfulness, and obedience to our part of the covenant.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY:
I will not fail God and my Spouse, I keep the covenant of marriage, and I am a good wife/ husband

PRAYER FOR THE DAY:
Father in the name Jesus, I declare that I have the help of the Holy Spirit concerning my life and marriage

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY:                                          
And I will give them one heart and one purpose: to worship me forever, for their own good and for the good of all their descendants. And I will make an everlasting covenant with them: I will never stop doing good for them. I will put a desire in their hearts to worship me, and they will never leave me. I will find joy doing good for them and will faithfully and wholeheartedly replant them in this land. –Jeremiah 32:39 – 41 (NLT)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY:                          
Make a list of the things you need to make amends on and start working on them.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY:
Genesis 12- 14

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Making God The Covenant Partner in Your Marriage

Making God The Covenant Partner in Your Marriage

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As couples, we are not meant to do marriage without God. He instituted marriage and there’s a picture in His heart, there is a purpose in His heart that needs to be accomplished.

The day you start neglecting God and treating His word with contempt is the day you begin to experience hardship in your marriage.

God’s word is His covenant with us ratified in the blood of Jesus. The word contains all the covenant terms and conditions.

All the requirements of the covenant must be satisfied. When we fulfill our part of the covenant, we automatically enjoy the blessing of the covenant.

That is why the scriptures say I have hidden your word in my heart that I may not sin against you.

Behold, the days come, saith the Lord , that I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel, and with the house of Judah:  Not according to the covenant that I made with their fathers in the day that I took them by the hand to bring them out of the land of Egypt; which my covenant they brake, although I was an husband unto them, saith the Lord :  But this shall be the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel; After those days, saith the Lord , I will put my law in their inward parts, and write it in their hearts; and will be their God, and they shall be my people. –Jeremiah 31:31 – 33 (KJV)

To enjoy the covenant blessings of marriage, you have to have respect for the word of God. Not only respect it but follow it to the letter.

Your obedience becomes your proof of respect. So Bible says;                                            

Husbands love your wives and wives submit to your own husbands. –Ephesians 5: 23 – 29 (KJV)

That’s the covenant requirement, whether it is convenient or not you have to obey and do just that.

That’s having respect unto the covenant. Jesus had to do the covenant requirement even though it wasn’t easy.

You now see why God will not shift grounds. He is a God of covenant, not a sentimental God.

If He could turn His back on Jesus when He was on the cross because He cannot behold sin and because He was carrying the sin of the whole world, God will turn His back on anyone who treats His covenant with contempt.

Let’s begin to respect the covenant God has with us. Let’s begin to do what the word says despite what our body wants or what our flesh is saying.

God grant us more understanding.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY                                                                  
I honour God’s word and covenant in my life, and marriage

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father in Jesus name, strengthen me to honour your covenant all the days of my life.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Husbands love your wives and wives submit to your own husbands. –Ephesians 5: 23 – 29 (KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Take time to search out what God says about marriage

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Numbers 1-2

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‘For Better, For Worse’ In Marriage

‘For Better, For Worse’ In Marriage

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We used to hear this phrase a lot long time ago, but nowadays, we hardly hear such a thing.
The world has gone digital, fast and every body seems busy.

Knowledge has made people to replace old values with modern ones. The question is does modernization makes our conclusions about marriage right?

The modern day view of marriage is contractual while the good old days view marriage in Gods eyes as a covenant.

Contractual view says, you do this, then I do that’. While covenant says, I will do this for you because I am committed to you. It doesn’t really matter what you do or don’t do’.

Marriage as a contract is always based on negotiations, convenience, and protection of self. Each spouse maintain their lanes and do what is expected. Otherwise, the marriage contact does not work and they go their separate ways which means separation or divorce.

In this case, marriage is not for a common goal. There is no fulfilling purpose or destiny together on view. There is no sense of purpose or God bringing the couples together to fulfill a mandate or an assignment.

All that is involved is ‘I am attracted to you, and you to me. We have a love connection between us and we are good to go’.

Marriage is for better, for worse. This is a little scary which brings with it a sense of awe. Two hearts and should beating as one is a mystery. That mystery can only be unraveled by the help of divinity.

Here, there is a sense of a divine assignment. Marriage is not just lived on their terms but on the terms of God, who is the covenant witness and judge in the marriage union.

Each couples live their lives following a particular road map created by the creator. That means there is a supervisory role performed by God.

The husband cannot just do whatever he likes to do, neither can the wife do whatever she likes or wishes in the marriage.

There are guiding principles, guiding both husband and wife. There is a race set before each one to run, and each one runs with passion looking to God for grace to accomplish his/her race.

Here the wife is protected as well or as much as the husband is protected too. Both husband and wife have a common father who protects their interest.

It is not based on human standards that the rights of the husband is protected above the wife. Where the woman is subjected to servitude.

Or in some cultures, where the wife is overly protected above the husband.

Marriage is indeed till death so us part.

May God grant us grace to do His will.

God bless our marriage.

CONFESSION FOR TODAY
My marriage is blessed.

PRAYER FOR TODAY
Lord, help me to live marriage as you ordained.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Matthew 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Go through your marriage vows again.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Matt 19

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Understanding The Covenant Bond In Marriage –Part 2

Understanding The Covenant Bond In Marriage –Part 2

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Continued from yesterday…

This means you must not consciously or unconsciously allow any infiltration into your marriage. Prying eyes and inquisitive ears must be discouraged. It also means you must not deny each other for any selfish reasons.

Amplified version of the Bible says that;

Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things… – Hebrews 13:4 (AMP)

Why must sexual intimacy be guarded? The reason is right there. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex. God will not take it lightly when the marital bed is desecrated by either of the spouse.

Amplified Bible goes further to say;

…And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [all guilty of sexual vice] and adulterous.

God will judge all sexual vice.

May I finally add that God does not condemn you in any way. He will not condone sin either. What is the thing to do? Stop the ungodly relationships.

Terminate it right away. Pick your phone and call him or her right away and tell him or her it is over. Decide for God. Embrace God’s principles. Become a word stickler and God will surely honour you and restore all the lost years back to you.

It is so easy to do. Several people who made decisions for God in their marriage and sexuality call me every day from virtually every part of the world! You can do it too!

Go into His presence right away, confess all sins and ask for forgiveness. He will give you peace and your soul will be preserved. If you need someone to pray with you, feel free to give me a call. God bless you!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy in my marriage. I will not be careless in my marriage and in my duty to my spouse.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I destroy every weapon of the enemy to tear us apart.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
All of you should honor marriage. You should keep the marriage bed pure. God will judge the person who commits adultery. He will judge everyone who commits sexual sins. –Hebrew 13:4

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
List a few ways you need to make changes in your marital bed. Follow through.
 
BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY

Heb 13

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