Managing Rejection and Disappointment

Managing Rejection and Disappointment

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Managing Rejection and Disappointment

Loved ones frequently abandon us. Life happens, and relationships fade.

What appears to be promising frequently falls apart.

Wedding arrangements are frequently canceled or shortened.

Jilting stories, abandonment stories, cheating escapades, and infidelity adventures are all common occurrences.

As a result, many leave.

What occurs in such situations?

People may walk away but God will never walk away.

Managing Rejection and Disappointment

Let us delve at the scriptures.

Isa 54:10 (MSG)  
For even if the mountains walk away and the hills fall to pieces, My love won’t walk away from you, my covenant commitment of peace won’t fall apart.” The GOD who has compassion on you says so

Eh! That should be read several times!

My love will not abandon you.

My peace covenant will not be broken.

Whoever wishes to walk away may do so, but as long as God’s love does not walk away, everything will work out for you.

I want you to look disappointment in the eyes and exclaim, “God’s love will not leave me!”

Stop sobbing.

Allow God’s love to heal you.

Managing Rejection and Disappointment

God utilized a nearly impossible scenario to demonstrate the depth of his love.

Mountains, as we all know, do not walk.

We all know that hills don’t just break apart.

But even if the mountain goes for a walk and never returns, and the hills disperse beyond repair, God promises that His love will not go!

Be optimistic.

Take pleasure in that love.

Swim in that ocean of love.

You will discover healing, restoration, and blessings beyond your wildest dreams in that love.

I’ll end here.

May you live long and prosper!


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From A Love Affair Into Marriage

From A Love Affair Into Marriage

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From A Love Affair Into Marriage

Dexterity in asking a lady out is not the victory, getting married to a good woman is. Having a true help-meet in the journey of life is one the sweetest things that can ever happen to you.

Changing your status from single to “Engaged” is not yet anything to rejoice about, getting married to a good faithful, responsible man is where the victory is.

There are men who are very spiritual but are completely unromantic. They don’t know more than to be quoting Bible.

Such men will have Bible study first upon any meeting before they even greet you. It is good. You are a spirit but don’t forget you are living here on earth.

From A Love Affair Into Marriage

It is true that marriage is made in heaven, but it is also a truism that it is lived on earth.

On the other side of the divide, there are those who are very romantic, but their spiritual life is a write-off.

The most beautiful thing then is to have a romantic and spiritual partner!

The first and major step is to become that yourself. Become the kind of person you want to attract.

Relationships don’t work out because you are convinced.

It works out because you work at it.

Relationships don’t work out because you really love the person.

It works out because you first love yourself.

Forgive easily.

Pray.

Work on becoming better.

Keep improving.

Read and study.

Going into relationships and coming out over and over again is not God’s plan for you.

Sit down and find out what went wrong.

From A Love Affair Into Marriage

Learn all you can learn.

Slow down. Don’t rush into a new relationship immediately after a failed one.

If you skip this process, the relationship will soon end as well.

I am praying for you, God will pilot your relationship into marriage in Jesus’ name.

All things will work out together for your good.

God will fill your mouth with laughter.

God will collapse all the wasted years and bring beauty from the ashes.

All will be well with you, this is my prayer for you this day.

Be blessed!


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Before You Marry 

Before You Marry 

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Before You Marry 

Any form of abuse isn’t funny at all.

Don’t cope with it.

From time to time, I am beleaguered with tales of abuse from the ones who once professed love to their wives.

As singles who are not yet married, you have to know what you are going for.

After the wedding, your choices are limited and restricted.

As singles, this is the time you need to borrow yourself “some brain” and stop holding to what is obviously faulty from the very foundation.

Before You Marry 

If you are being abused in a relationship, male or female, hit the pause button.

Don’t think a wedding will change things. It will not.

A wedding will not transform anybody.

Any change you couldn’t make as a single would not be easier to make after the wedding.

So, be careful of a wilful abuser who keeps telling you he will change after hitting you.

Yes, there could be a mistake and flaring of temper, which is wrong anyway.

But when there is an angry partner, always fuming at little provocations, getting angry at everything, hitting you over and over, and then apologizing, you need to be careful before you sentence yourself to a lifetime of abuse.

The Bible did warn about such people.

Pro 22:24 (KJV)  
Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:

It is a clear warning.

Don’t be friends with such people not to talk of dating them.

Why would the Bible warn you?

Pro 22:25 (KJV)  
Lest thou learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul.

Pro 22:25 (MSG)  
Bad temper is contagious— don’t get infected.

Before You Marry 

One can quickly become hurt, bitter, nasty, and even evil because of marriage with a wicked partner.

Be careful.

Do not invite afflictions that are not supposed to be part of your life.

May God bless your relationship.


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Building Blocks of a Lasting Marriage 2

Building Blocks of a Lasting Marriage 2

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Building Blocks of a Lasting Marriage 2

I will continue where I stopped two days ago. Previously, I wrote about the fact that God gave every woman the ability and capacity to be a builder. 

Our text in Proverbs 14:1 KJ V says, 

“Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands’. 

We also talked about how we need to build according to the pattern.

Ex 25:40 And look that thou make them after their pattern, which was shewed thee in the mount. 

God is the architect, He gives us the blueprint of what we should build, the material to use in building, and how we should build.  It is building according to the pattern that makes us wise women who build our homes.

Today, we will be looking at how we should build our homes and families.

1. We should build with prayers

 Jud 1:20-But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost, 

Our homes and families have different aspects just like any building has different sections and areas like the sitting room, the bathroom, the bedroom, the kitchen etc.  Each of these different component of the building have different functionalities and you cannot replace them with each other.  In the same way, the different aspects of our homes and families need to be built up through prayers. 

You must build every aspect of your home, marriage, and family with prayers. As a woman, you are not permitted to joke with prayers. Pray for each child. In fact, praying for them starts from conception. And the best way to pray for your children is in tongues as the Holy Spirit grants you utterance.  You pray for and about your spouse and every detail of his life. It is an assignment.  Your husband’s success should be your prayer burden. Pray for yourself because you are also part of that building. It is full-time work. There are so many aspects of your home and marriage that you build up through prayers.

2. We should build with the Word

Luk 6:47 Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them, I will shew you to whom he is like: 

Luk 6:48 He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock. 

The word of God is our only guarantee of a strong and solid foundation for our homes, marriage, and families. The infallible word of God is what ensures that what we are building stands the test of time and can weather the storms of life. So that whatever beats against our family and marriage, we will still be standing.

When we take time to build intentionally with fervent and continuous prayers and the Word of God we are wise. Don’t let us be like the foolish builder in Luke 6:49. Let’s learn to build according to the pattern God has shown us.

It is my prayer that we will be wise indeed and that the Lord will give us strength and Grace to carry on His mandate for our lives as women.


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Signs of a Dying Relationship or Marriage

Signs of a Dying Relationship or Marriage

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Signs of a Dying Relationship or Marriage

Today, we’ll look at the signs of an unhappy or dying relationship and marriage. This will allow us to diagnose and eliminate these problems swiftly. Let’s get started.

Signs of a Dying Relationship or Marriage

1. When trust has died and has been cremated

The foundation of any marriage’s success is trust.

Create trust! Please don’t break it! Without trust, the marriage has no foundation. 

How do you sever trust?

When you consistently disappoint your partner with lies and deception, trust will crumble. When confidence in a marriage is lost, the end is imminent. You cannot do without trust! Build trust deliberately through honesty.

Do everything you can to maintain trust by being truthful to a fault. Let your spouse r finance be able to line up your words with your actions! Be completely honest. 

A trust may be re-established once it has been destroyed, but it takes time and perseverance.

Signs of a Dying Relationship or Marriage

2. When the couple disregards God

There is really little you can accomplish without God.

God is the one who builds homes. God is the architect of marriage.

It is a waste of time to strive to construct without God.

Psa 127:1 (KJV)
Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.

As a form of retaliation, some couples engage in adulterous acts. It is only a matter of time before the impending crash becomes apparent.

Iniquity is always a destructive path. Don’t toe that path!

Sin’s wages are death, thus when sin enters a marriage system, it dies by default.

I pray your marriage does not end in divorce!

I prophesy over your marriage and household, and I pray that God will protect you in Jesus’ name!

Have a blessed day!


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