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This morning, we would like to set some things straight. There has been so much ignorance and wrong counsel.

There are things that are popular and prevalent but not necessarily of God. That something is nearly ubiquitous does not validate it. The voice of the people is sometimes reverberations and echoes of hell!

The voice of God is what stands any day, any time. The voice of man and the principles of man are often fraught with errors and casualties.

In God, there is nothing like Democracy, it is Theocracy. All of God or none of Him!

There are things that have been defined by the media and societal inclination; but as long as they are not founded in the word, they are as fickle as a flower that blossoms today and withers tomorrow.

You cannot build your life on such, or else when the storm rages; the wind blows and the rain falls, great will be the ruin of such building.

For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ. (1 Corinthians 3:11 KJV)

So, what are some of those things?

1. She Has To Get Pregnant Before Marriage

Some families will insist on this before they agree on any marriage. They want to be sure that the daughter they are bringing into the family is fertile or the guy that wants to marry their daughter is not impotent.

No matter how logical this looks, it contradicts the principle of God in terms of making the marriage bed undefiled.

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. (Hebrews 13:4 KJV)

However you want to see it, what is wrong is wrong. When your marriage is therefore founded on disobedience, it cuts short the blessings of God. It is not the ‘fertility’ of the lady or the potency of the man that will guarantee the next pregnancy after marriage.

There are couples who are very okay and have nothing wrong with their bodies and yet it takes a while to get pregnant. So how many times will the poor lady be subjected to some sexual rendezvous all in a bid to get her pregnant? And if she doesn’t get pregnant, she waits for another man, while she is discarded like an unwanted element?

How about her self-esteem? Self-worth? And who says the woman is always the issue in the event of no pregnancy?

This idea is definitely not of God and not from God!

Don’t allow yourself to be subjected to such affliction! Learn to trust God because God cannot lead wrong! He may lead you round, but He will never lead you wrong.

May God grant more understanding!

I will follow God all the way. I choose to do it in God’s way.

Pray that God will help you stay true till the end

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4 KJV

Decide to do it God’s way

Rom 4


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