Seven Tests To Pass Before You Say I DO -Part 3

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Continued from yesterday

5. The Test of People Skill

That is respect for individuals. People are like ladders. Does he treat people well? How about his mum, sisters, father, colleagues, etc. Is she courteous? Is she respectful? Does she disdain folks with a passion?

6. The Test of Excellence

That is wisdom. Is he hungry for wisdom or does he thinks he knows it all? A friend who isolates himself will crash. He or she cannot be corrected. There are no authority figures that can speak to him or her.

Let me tell you something here. The moment you look at a person and there is nobody you can report him to, there are no regards for parents or pastors, he is just an island by himself, you need to reconsider such friendships.

It is a trap of the devil and such tendencies are symptomatic of an unhealthy outlook to life.

7. The Test of God’s Fear

He must love God. She must be a God lover. Does he value God and His word? Does she revere God? This is the ultimate acid test. If he doesn’t love God, he cannot love you!

If he treats the things of God shabbily, he will end up treating you the same way. Let him or her be a person that fears God!

It is not enough to say one is born again these days, because the term has been grossly misapplied. It is not even enough to say one is a pastor or a choir leader or administrator in church; the question is does he or she fear God?

It was the fear of God that made Joseph run away from adultery. It was lack of God’s fear that made Samson with all his anointing to get into sexual sins repeatedly until he brought himself down. God gave him a long rope because the scripture says he judged Israel for twenty years.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have the Spirit of wisdom to discern and choose that which is good for my destiny.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Holy Spirit, fill me afresh with your wisdom in the affairs of my relationship.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 21:5 MSG Careful planning puts you ahead in the long run; hurry and scurry puts you further behind.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Commit your ways unto the Lord

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
2Chron 24

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