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Building Blocks of a Lasting Marriage 2

I will continue where I stopped two days ago. Previously, I wrote about the fact that God gave every woman the ability and capacity to be a builder. 

Our text in Proverbs 14:1 KJ V says, 

“Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands’. 

We also talked about how we need to build according to the pattern.

Ex 25:40 And look that thou make them after their pattern, which was shewed thee in the mount. 

God is the architect, He gives us the blueprint of what we should build, the material to use in building, and how we should build.  It is building according to the pattern that makes us wise women who build our homes.

Today, we will be looking at how we should build our homes and families.

1. We should build with prayers

 Jud 1:20-But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost, 

Our homes and families have different aspects just like any building has different sections and areas like the sitting room, the bathroom, the bedroom, the kitchen etc.  Each of these different component of the building have different functionalities and you cannot replace them with each other.  In the same way, the different aspects of our homes and families need to be built up through prayers. 

You must build every aspect of your home, marriage, and family with prayers. As a woman, you are not permitted to joke with prayers. Pray for each child. In fact, praying for them starts from conception. And the best way to pray for your children is in tongues as the Holy Spirit grants you utterance.  You pray for and about your spouse and every detail of his life. It is an assignment.  Your husband’s success should be your prayer burden. Pray for yourself because you are also part of that building. It is full-time work. There are so many aspects of your home and marriage that you build up through prayers.

2. We should build with the Word

Luk 6:47 Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them, I will shew you to whom he is like: 

Luk 6:48 He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock. 

The word of God is our only guarantee of a strong and solid foundation for our homes, marriage, and families. The infallible word of God is what ensures that what we are building stands the test of time and can weather the storms of life. So that whatever beats against our family and marriage, we will still be standing.

When we take time to build intentionally with fervent and continuous prayers and the Word of God we are wise. Don’t let us be like the foolish builder in Luke 6:49. Let’s learn to build according to the pattern God has shown us.

It is my prayer that we will be wise indeed and that the Lord will give us strength and Grace to carry on His mandate for our lives as women.


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