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Yes, he is asking you out, you have prayed or you are praying, he is looking more like it, what do you do as the lady before ultimately giving your heart to him?

Well, what you do is to ask questions.

In the process of asking questions, you will conclude whether you are with the right person or not.

His responses to the questions would show his depth, his preparedness, his state of heart, how he thinks, and what he would likely do in certain circumstances.

These questions, essentially are not to knock off God’s direction but to affirm that which is in your heart concerning what God is saying.

The responses to the questions would also wake you up in case you are just in some romantic and unrealistic island of love, or you are just simply hung on a crush.

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Gird up your loins now like a man; I will demand of you, and you answer Me.

Job 40:7 (AMP)

“I have some more questions for you, and I want straight answers.

Job 40:7 (MSG)

Face me and answer the questions I ask!

Job 40:7 (CEV)

Here are a few questions to ask him after he has asked you out.

1. Why me?
Why not another person? What do you see in me that warranted your decision? The response to this question would show whether his intention is genuine or not.

You see, when someone is telling a lie or pretending, it shows in his speech patterns, when he is saying the truth and communicating from his heart, it also shows.

You must not allow the feelings of love to becloud your judgment in picking out loose ends in the responses.

Let him face the panel. lol…

2. Conviction
What is his conviction? The response to this question will help you determine the source of the move and the motive of the heart.

Who told him you are the one? How did he really get to know?

This kind of question helps you to know if it is just a playful thing he has in mind or the real deal.

Who wants to be walking up and down the aisle without ever getting to the altar to receive the ring? God forbid.

So, you are nearing thirty, and you really don’t have time for some adolescent fling that will lead nowhere!

To be continued…

I will marry rightly.

Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

Pray in the spirit.

Job 40


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