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One Thing Married Couples Should Avoid. At the meeting of married couples I facilitated sometimes back outside the country, I was asked whether married couples can view pornography since they are already married. My response was No!

“Pastor, why would you say so? At least, we are married, and we can do anything in the sanctity of our marriage!”

James 1:14-15 But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death.

Well, here are a few reasons why I would not advocate that you bring viewing pornography into your marriage.

  1. There is a spirit behind pornography

The strongman of perversion is behind pornography. When you start viewing pornography, single or married, you open yourself or your home to the influence of these spirits. 

There will be what is called transference of spirits. And you will not like the consequences of that, especially years later. 

When a two-year-old who has not been exposed to anything sexual whatsoever, start humping against the wall or against a teddy bear, you can guess where the inspiration is coming from.

Everything carries a spirit. You wouldn’t want those wrong spirits messing up your home.

Avoid soft porn, Kama-Sutra, and some disguised pornography. It is a subtle attempt of the devil to have an in-road into your precious family. Do not cooperate with the devil in that area!

2. It would suck you in the more
The second reason is the fact that it will not only get your heart dirty with all the sadistic and demonic drama, but it will also come with a strong pull at your heart.

The possibility of addiction is so strong that if you are not careful, sex will be incomplete until you have watched pornography. After a while, regular pornography will not satisfy you, and there will be a pull towards more unimaginable perversion like bestiality, bondage, and submission dimensions!

You will start exploring sexual toys! All these terrains are not the way to go for a believer!

It has the capacity not only to mess up your sex life but to destroy the marriage and also to mess up your relationship with God. This is One Thing Married Couples Should Avoid

3. There will be a comparison
Your spouse would be placed under undue pressure of performance of all you have seen and watched. 

What you fail to realize, however, is that all the drama and sexual antics are mostly done under the effect of drugs, so powerful to numb every dignity out of a human!

It will be so unfair and almost bothering on wickedness to ask your wife to act out what you see in pornography. 

You might be violating her conscience, and yours as well and then eventually awakening the liberty for her to cheat on you as a result of all you watch together.

You need to know that what you see is acted. They are performing for the screen and money!

Forced to act enjoying what is humanly debilitating! Well, I will stop here this morning! I want to believe you have been blessed with this topic “One Thing Married Couples Should Avoid”

Remain blessed!

I refuse every form of perversion

Lord, set me free from all forms of bondage in the mind     

Mat 5:28 (MSG)  But don’t think you’ve preserved your virtue simply by staying out of bed. Your heart can be corrupted by lust even quicker than your body. Those leering looks you think nobody notices—they also corrupt.

Take out every pornographic item from your house and destroy them

Nehemiah 11


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