We started this topic a few on the things that the husband will want his wife to do for him days back. We looked at

1. Lovingly ask your husband what his present needs are and how you can meet them.

Today we will look at

2. Be ready to offer him help.

I know some women could be saying, I need help also let him help himself, is he a baby?

And yes, it could be overwhelming. When you work at a job, care for the house, the children, go to the market, do the laundry sometimes, there seems to be no time to take care of yourself, let alone help him out.

I always tell people, God is asking you to be everything. He is asking to be all that is needed par time with the strength He supplies.

This help could be as simple as being a good listener, who offered support.

There is capacity inside every woman to function as a helper. This is an unselfish role. You must be willing to the embassy this role and put on the garment of a helper.

Remember: you want to be a wife that will be celebrated, whose rewards will be obvious to all.

3. Pray for you husband

Some people believe that when you pray you are being fanatical. Well, try functioning without oxygen and see how far you can go. It’s almost impossible.

You pray not only because you have a problem.
Develop a relationship with the Father. In that case you learn to talk with Him about everything, especially about your husband.

Pray for his protection in this evil world. Pray for his job. You can make use a daily praying guide.

Remember, when you are praying for your husband, you are praying for yourself.

4. Submission is a vital part of the deal

The word submission have been abused and it’s intention has been reduced to merely that of the lord and servant.

Submission and love go hand in hand. A wife that is loved, will definitely be submitted.

The role of a woman viz a viz that of a man requires her to be submissive.

She is not inferior to her husband, but positionally, she occupies the second position.

For any woman or wife to make the home and marriage worthwhile, she has to be submissive to her own husband.

5. Respect him.

There is no husband who does not like being respected. If you think respect is no big deal to your husband, wait till someone else gives him respect and see what happens.

If your husband is not making a big deal of you respecting him, wait till a few more years. It will be as if your husband has changed from who he was.
So it’s better to begin now, practicing respecting him.

Respect can be seen in almost everything. From how you prepare his food, to the way it is served, how you talk to him and talk about him in private and public, all reveal the way you value and respect him.

I believe if we can do these things, we will be loved, cherished and valued more by our husband.

God bless our marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am led by the spirit to know how to meet my husband’s needs.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father Lord, teach me to be patient enough to listen to your guidance

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 31:10-11 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Start practicing these things

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Rom 4

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