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How To Deal With A Frequently Angry Spouse

How To Deal With A Frequently Angry Spouse
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Mr. and Mrs. George are two of a kind. They both have short fuses. They get angry so easily and frequently. As a result, they live in cycles of quarrels and strife. Before the last quarrel was settled, two fresh ones have started. As a result, they never really get to enjoy their married life. They were both swimming in the slimy waters of strife and perpetual bitterness and their arrogance blinded them to what they were missing with that posture.

Their prayers remained largely unanswered. Their peculiarity was that both of them were getting angry at the same time. Two guys were like that in the scriptures. They were eventually scattered.

Simeon and Levi are two of a kind, ready to fight at the drop of a hat. I don’t want anything to do with their vendettas, want no part in their bitter feuds; They kill men in fits of temper, slash oxen on a whim.  A curse on their uncontrolled anger, on their indiscriminate wrath. I’ll throw them out with the trash; I’ll shred and scatter them like confetti throughout Israel.

Gen 49:5-7 (MSG)

That would be the end, scattered. Usually, these quick expressions of anger are a result of unresolved issues. This is why it is good and healthy to talk about issues troubling you and not sweep them under the carpet.

Nothing is swept under the carpet really, they only go into the depth of the belly, like magma within the crust of the earth, breathing, hot, and mad, waiting for an appropriate provocation to explode in a volcanic eruption.

As couples, ensure both of you do not get angry at the SAME TIME!

In fits of anger, poor judgment results, twisted conclusions are reached and very regrettable words are spoken.

When your spouse is angry, try and control yourself as much as you can so that the event in question is not escalated unnecessarily.

May God grant you more wisdom!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am not controlled by anger

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to control my emotions.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Genesis 49:5-7(KJV)Simeon and Levi are brethren; instruments of cruelty are in their habitations. O my soul, come not thou into their secret; unto their assembly, mine honour, be not thou united: for in their anger they slew a man, and in their selfwill they digged down a wall.Cursed be their anger, for it was fierce; and their wrath, for it was cruel: I will divide them in Jacob, and scatter them in Israel.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Go through the devotional again and make plans.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 49

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