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4. Purpose

Be committed to the things of God. Don’t be so busy with your career or family life that you abandon your purpose and the assignment for which God created you. Make sure you pursue your purpose because that is where true riches and fulfillment lie.

5. Love or lust? 

Be selfless! That is how your marriage will last. Let the love of God propel you in all you do. Let the love of God be shed abroad in your heart. Love her truly. Respect him indeed. That is the blueprint that keeps divorce away!

Respect means a lot to a man while love means a lot to a woman. Rather than go back and forth on who is right or wrong, go ahead with agape love, unconditional love and you will keep your home together.

6. Space and Forgiveness

Forgive easily. It is the way to go if you want your marriage to last. Practice advance forgiveness.  Never hold your spouse in bitterness. Men, be patient with your spouse and make sure you love her genuinely.

Women, do not close up your spirit against your husband to a point you now live like strangers in your matrimonial home. Those are dangerous precursors to divorce!

7. Mentors

Adulterous relationships and extra-marital relationships are rooted in secrecy. The moment you can hide something from your spouse, you have planted a seed for chaos. Be open with each other. It kills the power of infidelity.

Learn to have a joint mentor who you trust, whom you can report yourselves to that will help you sort out issues that are beyond you. Take issues as they come and don’t store up hurts.

God will help you and give you grace in Jesus name!

I will not be in haste concerning my relationships. I will be led by God’s Spirit.

Lord, guide my steps so that I will not start wrong relationships in Jesus name.

Pro 2:10-12 KJV When wisdom entereth into thine heart, and knowledge is pleasant unto thy soul; Discretion shall preserve thee, understanding shall keep thee: To deliver thee from the way of the evil man, from the man that speaketh froward things;

Make a list of the qualities you want in a man and use it to pray.

Matt 3; Mark 1; Luke 3


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