Focus Unleashed: Six Strategies

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1. Focus on yourself

You are a vital part of that marriage. Discover yourself. Who are you? What are your desires, what makes you come alive, what makes you enjoy living? Love yourself. Be a happy you.

As singles, discover yourself and your purpose in life. Find out why you are here before venturing into marriage.

2. Focus on your lover or spouse

As a married person, the most crucial human being on earth is your spouse. Begin to treat him /her as such. Let nothing absolutely come in between that. Let the whole world know, your spouse is so important to you.

Some people treat their wives like ‘one kobo’ and expect her to treat them like ‘ a million dollar’, it ain’t gonna work that way.

Seize every opportunity to let everyone know this one human being is number one on your list.

Focus Unleashed: Six Strategies

3. Focus on God

This is the most important of all. Now, it will be very foolish to want to focus on yourself and your spouse and leave God out. It can not work. God is the center that holds the pieces all together. God is the vital force that crowns all our efforts with success.

4. Focus on your strength

You have strengths. Whether it’s your beauty, your home-making skills, your intellect, your being jovial, whatever it is, focus on it. It’s your selling point in your marriage. Don’t let go of your strong points.it is what will make your spouse keep coming back to you.

5. Focus on minimizing your weaknesses

Don’t ever make the mistake of pretending your weaknesses don’t exist. Please don’t ignore them. Your weaknesses have the potential of destroying the marriage you are building, so destroy your weaknesses before they ever destroy your marriage.

Focus Unleashed: Six Strategies

6. Focus on satisfying yourselves

Why should you spend your energy, time, and money on trying to please or satisfy another man’s wife? That’s called wastage.

Don’t go into an unprofitable venture. Ask yourself, if I satisfy her, how does it add to me or make my own marriage better?

Tend your own garden. When it’s harvest time, you won’t go and harvest on another man’s farm. It is not your own, so focus and build your own marriage.

Pro 12:11
He that tilleth his land shall be satisfied with bread: but he that followeth vain persons is void of understanding.

God bless your relationship and marriage

Rev. Sophia Okunowo