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There are some things every couple must not joke with in the marriage. They must constantly ensure these things are present in their marriage no matter what happens.

Marriage is for two mature people that are whole. Each person brings his or her wholeness to the marriage to form a whole marriage.

In the natural, it is half plus half that makes whole but in a godly marriage, the equation is different. It is whole plus whole that makes one or whole. In fact, it is whole plus whole plus God that makes a whole entity in marriage.

So let’s look into these few things.

1. Agreement

Do two walk together except they make an appointment and have agreed? – Amo 3:3 

There must be an agreement between the couple. They must ensure they always come to a place of agreement. It takes a lot of maturity, respect, and understanding to do that.

I remember when my husband first told me we will be praying online every day 5:30 am to 6:00 am. On that first morning, my body wanted to resist. I had to put my body under and be in agreement for us to do the will of God. And now my body clock has adjusted.

In such a way, we must be in agreement so we can achieve great feats in our lives.

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2.  Effective Communication

Your relationship started in the first place because you were able to effectively communicate to your lady that you love her and that you want her to marry you. You made your intentions known to her.

This communication must be an essential tool throughout your marriage and you must be skillful in using it.

Both men and women need to be skillful in communicating. Timing is also important in communication. There are certain times to say certain things. There is the best time when your husband will listen to what you have to say.

There is also the ‘how’, talking about the presentation of what you have to say. There is always a better way to arrange your points, especially if your husband is pretty smart, intelligent, and not too patient.  You want to present the most important issues first and sandwich it with accolades.

God bless our marriage

I am in agreement with my spouse in all areas.

Lord, teach me to be supportive of my spouse in Jesus name.

I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; 1Ti 2:1

Begin to look at areas you can give your support and begin to give it.

1Tim 3


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