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Don’t Marry The Flash. He wants to marry you because you are too beautiful, hours after meeting. He says you are the best thing that has ever happened to him, hours after meeting. Mr. Flash, slow down, it doesn’t work like that.

Who is the Flash? The flash is a scientist named Barry Allen who acquired super speed through a freak accident and becomes the fastest man alive.

Why shouldn’t you marry him? Beware of that guy who wants to sleep with you minutes after meeting you.

He is not interested in your person, he is only interested in your body. Those are two different things entirely. How does a person want to quickly sleep with the lady he just met? Something is out of place with that proclivity.

Knowing a person requires time. Besides, in this kingdom, we don’t compromise before the wedding! The moment he is rushing you, be careful. It takes time to know a person. Knowing a person requires time and several conversations!

You cannot fall in love with a person you barely know. There is a difference between love and lust.

Mr. Flash is driven by hormonal rushes. He’s had so many quick relationships that never worked out. He is the type that can ask three ladies out in one day. He is quick, nimble, and daring.

He is the type that convinces a lady he meets on the bus to follow him home and they are together for the next few weeks, sleeping together with a person he barely knows.

Once you see a flash in that guy, that is all it is, a flash, never a call.

People who hurry too much to arrive will also depart hurriedly.

Pro 21:5 (MSG) 
Careful planning puts you ahead in the long run; hurry and scurry puts you further behind.

Whenever it is too fast, and everybody is warning you, slow down and pray again.

Beware of the Flash!

Jer 2:25a (MSG) 
“Slow down. Take a deep breath. What’s the hurry? Why wear yourself out? Just what are you after anyway?

The Flash wants to marry you weeks after meeting you. A lot of ladies fall into this trap only to end up in a solo song titled, “He was not like this!” But the reality was that you never knew him.

Time is a tool to prove authenticity. Time reveals. Time exposes. Waiting on God to seek His face as regards that man will eventually put you ahead in life.

I conclude with this scripture!

Psa 46:10 (MSG) 
“Step out of the traffic! Take a long, loving look at me, your High God, above politics, above everything.”

In being still, you will know God, you will know His plan for you and you will avoid a whole lot of heartache.

I pray that God will give you more understanding in Jesus’ name. You will not be too hasty, but you will cooperate with God’s speed!

I am not in a hurry. I am patient for God’s best.

Oh Lord, deliver me from unnecessary haste.

Ps 46:10 ESV “Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!”

Pray in the spirit

Psalm 46


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