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There is something you should completely avoid. What can that be? It is called pride!

The reason why pride is such a dangerous sin can be found in some of these verses.

But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. (James 4:6 KJV)

Obviously, this won’t be a good place to be. When the Bible says God resisteth the proud, what that means is that God Himself will oppose and hinder a proud man.

Again you find the same thing here

Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. (1 Peter 5:5 KJV)

In the Old Testament, Nebuchadnezzar became proud, and he was humbled, he became an animal.

In the New Testament, Herod made a prideful statement, he was eaten from inside out.

Pride is not a good commodity that should be found with you.

Do you want God to help you in life? Be humble!

It is such a thin line between humility and pride. If you are a humble person, and you know it, then you are no longer humble! Humble people don’t say it or flaunt it, others identify it in them and talk about it. The day you talk or boast about your humility, you already lost it, because you are now proud of your humility!

The greatest problem a proud person has is that he never owns up that he is proud. His pride will not allow him to own up that he is really proud, and even when he sometimes discovers, he is still proud of his pride! This is something you should completely avoid as a single.

A lot of people have lost opportunities of a godly relationship because of pride! The picture of the person they wanted to get married to, is far from those that are showing up, so they keep on rebuffing opportunities that come their way. The problem is that after a long time, they always end up with just anybody because they suddenly wake up to the reality that age is no longer on their side.

‘My husband has to be handsome like my pastor!’ Ask your pastor’s wife to show you her husband’s picture before they got married. You will almost want to tell her that she took a risk!

I have always told people, the most important factor in deciding who to get married to is God’s direction. 

Physical attraction is very important as well, but that is not all to it. People change over time!

People change over time! In fact, some people get handsome, the older they get! While it is different for some, the older they get, the more they lose their rhyme and the magic!

You want to marry a Joseph? Would you have said yes to him while he was a slave in strange land, his destiny unsure and his dreams almost bothering on a psychological absurdity? Would you have married him when he was in the prison, sentenced to an indefinite prison life, together in the king’s maximum prison with hardened criminals convicted of murder?

My point is that what people are now, is not what they were before! I always tell men of God, they need to come together and do a thanksgiving service to God on behalf of their wives for saying “yes’ to them!

Have you seen the picture of the great man of God, Bishop Oyedepo as a single? You wouldn’t want to say Yes! But as a lady, you should be able to discern God’s direction even when it doesn’t look like it!

Almost every lady will want to marry a man as successful in ministry or as wealthy as Bishop. But Bishop said all he had then was his mouth and his vision!

The woman in the scripture says, I perceive this is a man of God!’ 

You know, but there is something about being humble enough to follow God’s plan for your life!

God sees ahead and sees what you cannot see. In His wisdom and love, He seeks to lead and direct us, if we are willing to obey and stay humble, we will enter into our wealthy place and we will be fulfilled not only in marriage but in life as well.

Ask yourself, am I really proud and hindering God’s plan unknowingly?

How do you know if you are proud? Here are a few tips:

You have an exaggerated opinion of yourself.

You have an opinion of everything and anything.

You are critical of almost everything and anything.

You have a problem with accountability. You are accountable to no one.

You see yourself as superior to your friends.

You are not submissive to any authority figures, including your pastors and parents.

You sometimes think you don’t need God, it is God that needs you!

Ask God to help you. Ask Him to open your eyes and show you all you need to know about yourself. Be humble enough to do that so that you will not delay yourself! As married couples, stay humble, so that you will not hinder God’s blessings! A lot of marriages have issues because the couple is proud and would refuse to apologise for offences for many days! Apologise quickly to each other! Be humble.

I will stay humble for God to lift me up. I choose to completely avoid every form of pride.

Pray against the spirit of pride and ask God to help you completely avoid it.

But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. (James 4:6 KJV)

Write down things to completely avoid.

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