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The transcendency of your present decisions is a blunt truth and reality that should set you thinking before doing anything!

Where you were born was never your decision, it was the decision of your parents, who were even influenced by their own parents.  This brings home the resounding truth, the decisions you are making now, even as a single, will affect your children and your children’s children! This then calls for caution, since your decisions will affect several lives that are still locked up in your loins.

The choice of your spouse, the strength of your service to God, the kind of lifestyle you are living now, all have a significant effect not just on you but on others around you because it’s not only about you.

This is why it becomes really important to consider every decision well before you take them. Even more interesting is the fact that whoever you are identified with or whoever you decide to follow can affect your life, and conversely, whoever follows you will be affected by your decisions.

Take a look at this scripture:

“So Saul died, and his three sons, and his armourbearer, and all his men, that same day together.”

(1Sa 31:6, KJV)

Saul was the one that disobeyed God. He was the one that refused to follow God’s instructions. But he did not die alone.  When he was going to die, his three sons died, his armor-bearer died, and then ALL HIS MEN, of which we do know their number!

All these people who died did nothing wrong other than following a man who did something wrong. Because of one man’s wrong decision, others innocent folk died with him.

Do you now see why you have to study that person well before you marry as it’s not just about you? Ultimately, marriage wedges destinies together and changes the course and direction of life!

Be wise!

God bless you.

Have a great day!

I will not make a wrong decision

Ask the Lord to help you make the right decision.

1 Sam 31:6 (CEV) Saul was dead, his three sons were dead, and the soldier who carried his weapons was dead. They and all his soldiers died on that same day.

Study that person well before marriage.

1 Sam 3


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