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Communication In Courtship Is A Sign. George and Sally are in love or so they claim. George had promised Sally marriage immediately they met. Sally’s joy knew no bounds. She was thankful that her “single years” are about to end.

However, rather than for the love to become established and grow, doubt increased in her. George was working in Port- Harcourt while Sally was in Lagos. George stopped calling, practically. Sally was doing the calling, making efforts while George kept saying he was busy.

Communication became a one-way street. Sally became the pursuer as she sensed that George was not going to change.

In no time she came frustrated and she gave up. The relationship came to a resounding crash.

On the part of Sade and Bode, it was Sade that stopped picking calls. Bode was confused since they are at different locations as well. She would say she was tired, she replied to chats with monosyllables, and some were not replied to until three days later. He eventually got the message and moved on!

My point this morning, once communication begins to die, that relationship will die as well.

Don’t spend your courtship years tearing yourselves apart in quarrels here and there because precious moments of communication will be lost.

Once this attitude and habit are taken into marriage, it can really be frustrating.

People in love talk! They want to talk all the time. The moment you see that communication is dwindling, there is an issue there. Communication In Courtship Is A Sign

The moment he tells you he is too busy and that you should already know he loves you, there is a problem.

The moment she is withdrawn and not talking and yet she is talking to others, there is a problem.

The moment you are seen as a nuisance without any cause as it were, there is an issue.

I pray God will grant you wisdom indeed!

Be blessed today in Jesus’ name! Communication In Courtship Is A Sign

I will not be deceived. I am sensitive to the Holy Spirit

Father lead me into your ordained relationship for me and teach me to work at it.

Gen 11:6 (KJV) And the LORD said, Behold, the people is one, and they have all one language; and this they begin to do: and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined to do.

Be committed to your relationship through consistent communication

Gen 11


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