by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 11, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 3 minutesNot all addictions are obvious. Some don’t involve substances—they involve validation. The need to be noticed, admired, desired… can quietly become a dependency. And when attention becomes your source of worth, you will keep seeking...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 10, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesOne of the most dangerous shifts in marriage is this: When what should be built inside… is being searched for outside. People don’t usually step out suddenly. It often starts with neglect, disconnection, and unmet needs. And when those...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 9, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesOne of the most painful realities in marriage is not absence… It is presence without connection. A man can be physically in the house but emotionally distant, mentally checked out, and spiritually disconnected. And over time, this creates...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 8, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesMany people think the past stays in the past… But when it comes to intimacy, the past often follows you into the future. What you have experienced, tolerated, or normalized can shape how you think, feel, and respond in marriage. Scripture says:...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 7, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesMany people think they understand intimacy… But what they often experience is only a surface version of it. They confuse physical closeness, emotional excitement, or constant communication with true intimacy. But real intimacy goes deeper than...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 6, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesMany people are praying for marriage… But unknowingly, they are already laying the wrong foundation. Marriage does not fail suddenly. It often fails slowly—starting before it even begins. The patterns you carry into marriage will shape what you...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 5, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesIn today’s world, it is becoming more common for women to earn more than their husbands or partners. For some couples, this is not an issue. For others, it quietly creates tension, insecurity, ego struggles, and even conflict. Why? Because...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 4, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesDifficult conversations are unavoidable in relationships. Issues will arise. Expectations will clash. Feelings will be hurt. But many people avoid hard conversations—not because the issues are small, but because they fear conflict. The result?...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 3, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesSex in marriage is not just physical. It is emotional, spiritual, and covenantal. God designed it not only for pleasure, but for connection, unity, and mutual giving within marriage. Scripture says: “Let the husband render unto the wife...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 2, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesSome people love deeply. They give, sacrifice, show up, and invest emotionally. They are loyal, expressive, and committed. Yet, despite all they give, they often feel empty, unseen, or unfulfilled. Why? Because loving well is only one side of...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Apr 1, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesMany people are praying for a spouse. They fast, they believe, they declare—but nothing seems to happen. It is easy to assume delay means denial. But sometimes, the issue is not that God is withholding. It is that something within needs to be...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Mar 31, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesSocial media has changed how people see relationships. Every day, you are exposed to curated lives, edited beauty, highlight reels, and “perfect” couples. Over time, this constant exposure begins to shape your expectations—often...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Mar 30, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesIn today’s culture, fornication is often minimized. It is called “normal,” “casual,” or “just physical.” But according to Scripture, it is never just physical. There is a deeper reality many ignore: Sex...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Mar 29, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesApologies are important in relationships. But apologies without change can become empty words. Many people say “I’m sorry” repeatedly, yet continue the same behaviors. Over time, this weakens trust, frustrates relationships,...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Mar 28, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesThe culture around relationships has shifted dramatically. Casual intimacy is normalized. Commitment is delayed. Emotional detachment is often praised as independence. But what many fail to realize is this: You cannot repeatedly engage in...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Mar 26, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesSilence in marriage is not always peace. Sometimes, it is distance. Stonewalling—when one partner shuts down emotionally, withdraws, or refuses to engage—can quietly damage a relationship over time. It may not be loud or aggressive, but its...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Mar 25, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesThere are certain conversations in relationships that people avoid—not because they are unimportant, but because they are uncomfortable. One of those is the conversation about sexual history—often referred to today as “body count.”...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Mar 24, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesIt can be frustrating and even confusing to find yourself returning to relationships that hurt you. You may promise yourself it is the last time. You may see the red flags clearly. Yet somehow, you find yourself drawn back again. This is not...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Mar 23, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesIn relationships—especially those moving toward marriage—honesty is not optional. It is foundational. One of the most sensitive areas of honesty is sexual history. Many people struggle with what to share, when to share, and how much to disclose....
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Mar 22, 2026 | Singles and Married
Reading Time: 2 minutesIntimacy in marriage is a gift. It is meant to strengthen connection, deepen love, and build unity between husband and wife. However, when intimacy is used as a tool for control—whether by withholding it, demanding it, or attaching conditions to...
