Be Your Husband’s Playmate

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Have you ever been unresponsive to your husband’s playful advances? I have been several times. That was before I learned that part of my role as a wife is to be responsive to him and to be his playmate every time and any time.

Do I respond every time? No. I still consider my husband playful and don’t join, thankfully we have three boys who can play with him.

My husband sometimes considers me as being too serious. I never grew up with a sanguine in the house so having fun was not a regular thing. We were quiet in our family and our idea of fun was little laughter here and there.

My husband is not so much of a Sanguine but his Choleric tendencies have made him an extrovert at least to me. He seems quiet when he wants to but when he is in his rhyme, he really wants to talk and play.

Sometimes he wants to play, sing *winks*, be funny, talks, disturb me and all the rest. He is just full of energy and he wants to release some.

The one thing that men don’t leave behind from being boys is playing and having fun. They love to have fun and as their wives, you have to learn to have fun with them.

You may be pushing your husband out to look for a playmate. You must learn to be jovial. Be responsive to his jokes. Laugh with him. Laugh at him. Your role as his wife is not to stop him from playing, it is to play with him.

Don’t stop him from watching his football games or any other games, join him in. Don’t be too busy for him. I know you have a lot to do especially when you don’t have help. The idea is to let your husband occupy the first place and every other thing will find its place.

God bless your marriage

I am my husband’s playmate

Help me Lord to cast my care upon you

Eph 5:23 (KJV)  For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

Be responsive to your husband’s play and jokes.

Psalms 25


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By Sophia Okunowo

Pastor Sophia is a mother, mentor and pastors along side her husband.

8 thoughts on “Be Your Husband’s Playmate

  • Abiodun -

    My wife receives the ability to be my play mate always in Jesus name. Men never outgrows play o!

  • Oluwafolakemi -

    God will help us to continue to be playmates.

  • Hmmmm, mummy God bless you for this.

    I am my husband’s playmate.

  • Oluwaseun -

    hmmm…. very true ma. Men don’t really outgrow that playfulness.. Especially the extroverted ones…. thank you for today’s devotional!!!

  • We receive grace to play in our marriage, even as we pray

  • Olanipekun Tolulope J. -

    “The one thing that men don’t leave behind from being boys is playing and having fun. They love to have fun and as their wives, you have to learn to have fun with them.”

    I concur sir.

  • Olanipekun Tolulope J. -

    Na so my brother. God help us.

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