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Be An Encouragement To Your Lover

Everyone experiences depression, moodiness, or despair from time to time. Life, as they say, happens, and singles in courtship and couples are not immune.

In most cases, your partner will not be able to solve your mood swings or sadness, but having someone on whose shoulders you can cry can be quite beneficial.

Furthermore, depending on how long you’ve been married, your spouse may lack the appropriate words or acts to make you feel better.

Being patient with your partner will help here. He or she may be coping with troubles of their own and is simply attempting to be strong for you.

It is impossible to overstate the importance of having a personal relationship with the person of the Holy Spirit. He is the greatest source of solace for our souls. He is our fortified. Our helper and comforter.

Job told his friends:

Job 16:2 (KJV)
[2] I have heard many such things: miserable comforters are ye all.

The Holy Spirit is the only true comforter!

He provides and brings us joy, gladness, and help.

However, as a pair, we must continue to support one another.

Here are two good strategies to encourage your spouse during difficult times.

Be An Encouragement To Your Lover

1. Communicate with the Holy Spirit.

It is extremely beneficial to have daily communication with the person of the Holy Spirit. Before you lash out at your spouse for acting in particular ways or conclude that he or she is uncooperative, take the situation to God.

Oh, the things we frequently forego.

Oh, what unnecessary suffering we endure because we do not bring all to God in prayer.

Be An Encouragement To Your Lover

2. Express genuine affection to your spouse

A deep and sincere love for your spouse is one method you might give your spouse in such circumstances. Feel compassion for him or her.

Love, as they say, is an action word.

Show it, not just say it.

God bless our marriages.


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