Acknowledging The Greatness of God In Marriage

Acknowledging The Greatness of God In Marriage

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COUPLES –

It is still the same God of the bible that is still the same now. He is the same God who turned back the red sea, who made the lame to walk, the blind eyes to see, the dumb to speak e is still the same God you are serving.

The God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. The Israel God, The Jehovah the man of war, his mercies endureth forever and ever. The only one, the mighty one, awesome, wonderful, the way maker, He made a way in the wilderness, He is still the same God.

He defeated great kings, he stopped the mouth of the lions, He turned bitter water into sweetness, He made the barren mother of children, he fed five thousand with five loaves of bread and two fishes, he is the same yesterday, today, and forever, He is still the same God.

The God that answers by fire, the one whose voice is like thunder, He spoke and mountains shook, the Holy God, the righteous God, the Only one, the breadth of life, the light in the darkness, He is still the same one.

The bright and morning star, the most high, and His name shall be called Wonderful, Counselor, the lily of the valley, is still the same one.

The same one that raises the dead, the same one that heals the sick, He is the same one that gives joy and laughter, the great teacher, He is still the same one.

He is still the same one you and I call, He is the same one who has promised that will never fail. He is the same one who will never leave us or forsake us. He is the one who has called us to trust in him, He never sleeps nor slumbers. He is the great I am. The I AM WHO I AM. The Word of God. The Amen.

This God is still the same God. Trust Him. He will take care of you.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
God is a great God over my life

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, let me see your greatness

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psa 71:19 (KJV)  Thy righteousness also, O God, is very high, who hast done great things: O God, who is like unto thee!

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide to praise God

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
1 Samuel 21 – 24

How To Be An Ideal Man –Part 2

How To Be An Ideal Man –Part 2

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SINGLES – How To Be An Ideal Man                

Dear single men, pay attention to today’s devotional. Yesterday we examined God’s perspective of an ideal man; today I want to show you what every virtuous woman looks out for in a man.

The lady speaks;

I want a man, a real man, man enough to be my husband, strong enough to stand in his place as the head of the house and the breadwinner. I want a man who is a king and a servant at the same time.

I want a man whose royalty is rooted in God, I want a man I can be proud enough to call ‘my crown!’ I want a man who despite being a king is humble enough to have the heart of a servant.

I want a man I can call my own! A man I am proud of! I want a man of integrity. I want a man whose words I can go to bed on. I want a man who will protect me. I want a man that will not want me to compromise my virtue in order to satisfy his lust during courtship.

I want a man who will be my head and not my headache! I want a man who will love me properly, accept me as I am, nurture me, and commit to my spiritual development.

I want a man that will stand by me in the labour room. The hands of Zerubabbel started it. It ought to complete it!

I want a man I can vouch for. I want a man that will love me only and no other. I want a man that is thinking of me all the time. I want a man, not a boy.

I want a man that will not bring another to our matrimonial bed. I want a man who fears God so much and will not desecrate the marital covenant because of lust. I want a man that will rather die than become adulterous! I want a man that will respect the covenant and will not throw our home into untold chaos and havoc with his actions. I want a man that can zip up!

I want a man in the house that will usher me into peace when I am not around. I want a man in the house that the house-help is safe with. I want a man who has self-control.

I want a man that can lay hands on me and bless me. I want a man that I can rely on emotionally. I want a man whose shoulders I can lean on. I want a man that will lead our family to God.

I want a leader in the house! I want a man who will make my heart bless him and not make my heart bleed at his appearance. I want a man that will make my heart filled with thanks and not tears. I want a man that will make me be at rest and not under duress! I want a man that will make me his queen and not his doormat! I want a friend, confidant, and companion, not a competitor!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a good man / I will find a good man. God will help me!

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father in the name of Jesus, I ask that you flood the eyes of my mind with revelation light. As I study your word give me understanding. Let my relationship be transformed as my mind gets renewed daily.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY              
I will therefore that men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting. -1Timothy 2:8 (KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Check the man in you and sincerely take an inventory to see whether you are pleasing God

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 7-9

How To Be An Ideal Man

How To Be An Ideal Man

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SINGLES – How To Be An Ideal Man                

Throughout every generation, God seeks a man that can bear his flag. Look through the scripture and you will see that God is always in search of a man that can stand for him and his people.

See what the bible says here;   

And I sought for a man among them… -Ezekiel 22:30 (KJV)

What kind of man is God in search of?

God wants a man that will lift up holy hands in his presence. A man compelled and propelled by a sense of destiny. He wants a man he can bless and prosper who will not withhold from my kingdom, a man that can be his mouthpiece at home and at work; that the anointing can be placed upon!

God wants a man that will not falsify documents, a man that will be faithful to his wife. He wants a man that can be made a channel of blessing to others, someone who will not bow to the systems of the world. God wants a man king enough to bear his message, and lamb enough to refuel in his presence.

A humble man is who God is searching for!

Are you a man he can bless to bless others? Are you a channel?

God doesn’t want a dam! He wants a man he can exalt who will exalt others, not an intimidated and insecure man who is yielded to the flesh all the time.

Are you a man that can raise sons, and not add sores into other destinies?

God wants a man who knows that his kingdom is perpetuated in lifting others and not putting them down.

God is seeking for a man, even in this generation, who will repair destinies and not wreck them; a man that will remember where God picked him from and not mutilate other destinies.

God wants a man that is conscious of the day of reckoning between him and his maker, the very day he will stand before God to give an account of all he has done.

Are you God’s man? Are you one who forgives easily, not someone who will churn out weapons in his arsenal to destroy others?

God seeks a man he can use to lift burdens off others and not add more.

God seeks a man who will not use his name to manipulate ladies into sexual relationships!

God seeks a man who will not use the grace he is given to bring disgrace into the kingdom!

God wants a man who will not try to build ‘his kingdom’ at the expense of the kingdom of his dear son. Can God trust you with His power and riches?

Are you that man who will not use the wisdom and the platform you have been given to manipulate destinies and leave them warped at the end?

God wants a man whose heart is after him!

My question for you this morning is; are you the man God is looking for?

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a good man / I will find a good man. God will help me!

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father in the name of Jesus, I ask that you flood the eyes of my mind with revelation light. As I study your word give me understanding. Let my relationship be transformed as my mind gets renewed daily.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY              
I will therefore that men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting. -1Timothy 2:8 (KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Check the man in you and sincerely take an inventory to see whether you are pleasing God

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 4-6

Anatomy of A Virtuous Woman – Part 2

Anatomy of A Virtuous Woman – Part 2

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SINGLES –

Continued from yesterday

There are many potential virtuous women among prostitutes out there! What they are doing is wrong but the way they pursue their trade relentlessly is the same way they will pursue their destiny if they ever meet Jesus!

Jesus told the adulterous woman, “Go and sin no more!”

It was her sinful life that swallowed up the virtuous woman in her. But if she ever listened to Jesus, if she walked away from that adulterous lifestyle, she became a virtuous woman!

A virtuous woman is a lady who is under tremendous sexual pressure in her office but refuses to dip her hands in adultery!

That is why Proverbs 31:11-12 says:

The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. –Proverbs 31:11-12(KJV)

My submission this morning is not to validate a sinful lifestyle; but to call you out of the sinful lifestyle into the virtuous woman that you are meant to be.

The harlot that welcomed the spies that were sent to the Promised Land was eventually mentioned alongside people like Moses and other Patriarchs because of the inner strength she had but was covered up with a sinful lifestyle.

Guys, before you judge anybody, try and know where they are coming from!

To every lady out there this morning, I write to the virtue on your insides. I am calling forth the virtuous woman that lies within you this morning. I feel like I have a trumpet to my mouth to sound an alarm and to issue an edict to every devil trying to distract you and confuse you that their time is up!

I write to the great destiny that lies within you, come alive! I write to the great wife and incredible mother in you, covered in a myriad of weaknesses, come forth in the name of Jesus! I call forth the greatness in you!

Some of you have been abused before you knew your left from right. Some of you have been introduced to sexual intercourse before you reached the age of accountability. It wasn’t your fault, but it would be to your detriment if you remain in that state!

Yes, you may not have been able to influence your past, but from today, you can determine what your future will look like!

Don’t let the devil tell you, you are too far gone! That is a lie from the pit of hell. Jesus is able to save from the gutter-most to the uttermost!

Arise and shine! You can have a great home! You can have a beautiful marriage. All you need to change the equation of your life is Jesus Christ!

He will forgive, cleanse, wash you and make you a new person!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am replacing negative thoughts with positive ones. I’m not defeated in my mind. My relationship is taking a new turn.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father in the name of Jesus, as I study your word give me understanding. Let my mind be transformed and renewed daily.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Since we consider and look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen; for the things that are visible are temporal (brief and fleeting), but the things that are invisible are deathless and everlasting. -2Corinthians 4:18 (AMP)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Fill your mind with pictures of a better life and a beautiful marriage. See everything about working and you will have what you see.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 1-3

Anatomy Of A Virtuous Woman

Anatomy Of A Virtuous Woman

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SINGLES – Anatomy Of A Virtuous Woman

First of all and as a background, I will like you to see the meaning of the word “virtuous”, this will help us put proper perspective.

The word “virtuous” is from the Hebrew word “Chayil” which means virtue, valor, strength, and wealth.

When we say a virtuous woman, it actually means “strength” A virtuous woman is a virgin and someone who has kept herself because that is a definition of some strength, but that is not all to it! A virtuous woman is also a lady who despite all she has gone through refuses to give up and makes up her mind never to compromise again!

Don’t get me wrong, a virtuous woman is a lady that is clean and refuses to sin, but a virtuous woman is also a woman who has sinned so much or has been abused so much and yet comes out to stop sinning and fulfill her destiny!

For example, Joyce Meyer is indeed a virtuous woman! Her father slept with her constantly into her teenage years. She was abused sexually, verbally, and in all ways. Her self-esteem was crushed. Her first marriage ended in divorce. Yet out of the ashes of her messed-up life, she rose with the help of God’s Spirit and built a worldwide ministry!

You couldn’t mention three names of women in ministry today without her name popping up! That is what a virtuous woman is! She was broken but she ended up becoming a master at mending!

Let me convince you more.

The word “Chayil” from which “Virtuous” was translated is from the root word “chûl chı̂yl” which means to twist or whirl (in a circular or spiral manner), that is, (specifically) to dance, to writhe in pain, fall grievously (with pain), fear, form, great, grieve, (be) grievous, hope, look, make, be in pain, be much (sore) pained, rest, shake, shapen, (be) sorrow (-full), stay, tarry, travail (with pain), tremble, trust, wait carefully (patiently), be wounded.

Those words present a picture of someone who has gone through so much and yet continues to fight to overcome those things. If I can make a sentence out of that definition, it will look like this:

Somebody who has been twisted and whirled around, abused and messed up, gone through so much pain and grief, has been wounded, and yet refuses to lose hope but allows all the experience to shape her into who God really wants her to be!

To be continued

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have victory in my mind and so I am victorious in my life and marriage. I am replacing negative thoughts with positive ones.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father in the name of Jesus, I ask that you flood the eyes of my mind with revelation light.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Since we consider and look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen; for the things that are visible are temporal (brief and fleeting), but the things that are invisible are deathless and everlasting. -2Corinthians 4:18 (AMP)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Consciously begin to replace the negative thoughts in your mind with positive ones.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Job 40-42