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Anxiety – The Bliss Choker

In today’s world, it is so easy to fall into the temptation of getting all worked up or worried or anxious about so many things.

Our relationships as singles are not spared from this strategy of hell to snuff joy, understanding, and bliss from them.

You will always see ladies more beautiful, more caring, more understanding, richer, and more respectful than your fiance or fiancee. Make up your mind with the help of God to stay focused on your partner.

You will always have desires, especially of material things. Don’t focus on what you don’t have and get anxious or agitated about those things

Celebrate your partner. Be intentional about seeing the best in each other.

Appreciate what you have and leave what you don’t have.

The same goes for us Couples. Other ladies and men will not suddenly become ugly. There will still be countless good men out there. Don’t compare the qualities of other women and men to your spouse.

Accept and love your spouse the way they are. 

We are all a work in progress. The human tendency is to complain about what God has given you. The more you complain the more you will have reasons to complain. The more you appreciate your spouse the more grateful you are for them.

Don’t become anxious, especially about the good things of life, you don’t have YET. A pregnant woman does not envy the woman carrying her baby. They both carry something, it’s just a matter of time and the pregnant one will also carry her baby.

These things are not bad in themself but when you have your mind focused on them, they tend to choke the bliss out of your marriage.

Philippians 4:6 NIV   
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 

Enjoy your spouse. Thank God for the spouse God has given you. What you lack now, will become plenty only if you have the right attitude of thanksgiving. 

Material prosperity will come. Let us learn to enjoy ourselves on the way to our destination.

God does not want us to be worried and get preoccupied with things we don’t have.

He expects us to make our request known to our maker through prayers.

Enjoy your spouse. Enjoy your children. Enjoy where you are and what you have in the present.

God bless you!

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