You Will Not Always Have All The Time!
Ask every couple, things get busier after the wedding!
Dear singles, you will never have “free” time like you do now as a single! Enjoy it while it lasts!
Instead of rushing into marriage, fasting, and praying for a wedding, relax and calm down, and serve God with all your energy now!
The reality remains, that nobody can marry your own! Let there be a million weddings daily, nobody can marry your spouse!
Let go of the pressures, because pressures take away all the pleasures. Moreover, pressures don’t get prayers answered quickly, if anything, it brings delays.
Pressures make you lower your standards, become vulnerable, and entertain nonsense!
Take a look at the scripture.
1Co 7:32-35 (GNB) I would like you to be free from worry. An unmarried man concerns himself with the Lord’s work, because he is trying to please the Lord. [33] But a married man concerns himself with worldly matters, because he wants to please his wife; [34] and so he is pulled in two directions. An unmarried woman or a virgin concerns herself with the Lord’s work, because she wants to be dedicated both in body and spirit; but a married woman concerns herself with worldly matters, because she wants to please her husband. [35] I am saying this because I want to help you. I am not trying to put restrictions on you. Instead, I want you to do what is right and proper, and to give yourselves completely to the Lord’s service without any reservation.
Did you see that? The single time affords you to serve God more because there are fewer worries about taking care of your spouse and eventually your children!
Before you enter that phase, enjoy this one you are in. Serve God with all your strength.
For couples, this should never be an excuse to not serve God. God won’t understand that it’s because you are married that you ignore Him and His will.
May God grant you more understanding!