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The Commitment Of Marriage. God is our creator, He made us and we are the sheep of His pasture. He also created the marriage institution and knows how best it is to be worked. He didn’t just leave us clueless but gave us His guidelines.

The Bible is our manufacturer’s manual. It becomes our road map to doing marriage well. God has promised the days of heaven on earth in our marriages. We can only achieve this when we live according to the dictates of the Bible.

Any diversion from the commands of God’s injunctions leads to a negative experience. God may lead us around but He definitely will not lead us wrong. 

There are instructions for living individually because it is two whole individuals that make a good marriage.

We are to study the Word of God for living. The Word is to transform us. 

Let’s look at one of the core instructions to married couples in Ephesians. It speaks specifically to husbands and wives. This is The Commitment Of Marriage

Husbands and wives are to pursue these instructions with the whole of their hearts. They are to study it in different translations of the Bible and ask the Holy Spirit for Grace to do it no matter what. 

That is how to follow God. The rewards are for the Word practitioners. Talk is cheap, quoting the scriptures is cheap but being a doer of the Word is where the real work is.

Ephesians 5:21-33 TPT
And out of your reverence for Christ be supportive of each other in love.

For wives, this means being devoted to your husbands like you are tenderly devoted to our Lord, for the husband provides leadership for the wife, just as Christ provides leadership for his church, as the Savior and Reviver of the body. 

In the same way, the church is devoted to Christ, let the wives be devoted to their husbands in everything. 

And to the husbands, you are to demonstrate love for your wives with the same tender devotion that Christ demonstrated to us, his bride. For he died for us, sacrificing himself to make us holy and pure, cleansing us through the showering of the pure water of the Word of God. All that He does in us is designed to make us a mature church for his pleasure, until we become a source of praise to him—glorious and radiant, beautiful and holy, without fault or flaw.

Husbands, have the obligation of loving and caring for their wives the same way they love and care for their own bodies, for to love your wife is to love your own self. 

No one abuses his own body but pampers it—serving and satisfying its needs. 

That’s exactly what Christ does for his church! He serves and satisfies us as members of his body. 

For this reason, a man is to leave his father and his mother and lovingly hold to his wife, since the two have become joined as one flesh. 

Marriage is the beautiful design of the Almighty, a great mystery of Christ and his church. 

So every married man should be gracious to his wife just as he is gracious to himself. 

And every wife should be tenderly devoted to her husband. This is The Commitment Of Marriage.

This remains the core of the marriage relationship. Couples having issues in their marriage should come to a point where the Word becomes the final authority they both submit to.

Each couple should embark on a personal journey of doing everything possible to unravel this instruction. Study, meditate and confess this scripture.

Any teaching that is outside these instructions is not the Word. 

Let me leave us all to study this scripture. May the Lord grant us understanding

Our marriage will thrive

I live by the word. I honor the Word. I humble myself under the mighty hand of the Word. As I obey the Word, my life and marriage is transformed.

Father give me your wisdom to honor my spouse in Jesus name 

So every married man should be gracious to his wife just as he is gracious to himself. And every wife should be tenderly devoted to her husband. Ephesians 5:33 TPT 

Study this scripture until you have understanding and revelation on it.

Eph 5


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