The Importance of Body Chemistry

The Importance of Body Chemistry

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SINGLES – The Importance of Body Chemistry

The scripture clearly identifies the importance of physical attraction when it comes to marriage.

God in His wisdom knows that if a man does not derive satisfaction from his wife, he would seek it else where, which of course will not only be detrimental to him, but to his whole family.

So, God advises the man:

Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger? For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, and he pondereth all his goings (Proverbs 5:18-21 KJV) 

In other words, what God wants is that you focus on your wife and not somebody out there. He said all your ways are before Him and He will inquire about everything you do. More or less, the affair that you think is secret is actually open to God. 

As a single, you don’t want to spiritualise everything and say attraction doesn’t matter! It matters a lot! 

Marry somebody you like and you love, a friend you can play with and laugh with. That is why the scripture says, “…rejoice with the wife of thy youth.“ The Importance of Body Chemistry

You also need to know that God will not force anybody on you. This idea that you are marrying somebody not because you love the person but because God said so is defective.

As a lady, when a guy walks up to you and tells you that God has spoken to Him, you also need to hear God as well.

Now, we have established that physical attraction is very important! But there is a balance! Physical attraction alone is not the only thing that determines your choice! See the scripture.

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. (Proverbs 31:30 KJV)

Message Translation says:

Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear–of– God. (Proverbs 31:30 Message)

So we see here, the only thing shouldn’t be outward beauty, but also inner beauty.

It is okay if she has hot legs, but her heart must also be hot for God! A hot leg without a hot heart will get your hands burnt at the end.

So in man or in a woman, I should have attraction for him or her, while he or she must have attraction for God.

This is very important!

In conclusion, no lady should ever think she is not beautiful. There is nothing like that. You are beautiful and you should believe it.

Have you not seen some of the most handsome men (in your opinion) get married to some of the most ugly ladies? (again, in your opinion) And then such men would say their wives are beautiful! You see, beauty is in the beholder’s eyes! 

When your husband sees you, regardless of how you think you look, he will love you and will tell you that you are beautiful.

So, you can help yourself and your esteem by looking at the mirror daily and pointing to who you see there and say, “you are beautiful!” The Importance of Body Chemistry

If some people have told you that you are ugly, it is okay. You are wonderfully and fearfully made, so says the scripture. That means you will be “wonderful” to some and you will be “fearful” to others. Certainly when your spouse sets eyes on you, you will be “wonderful!”

So be patient and wait for the salvation of God in your marriage.

May God help us all.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a child of God. I am beautiful

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will be your wisdom and strength

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it (Proverbs 31:10-11 Message)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Write down what you want in a spouse.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 25, 29




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How To Enjoy Yourselves As Couples

How To Enjoy Yourselves As Couples

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The Bible says husbands should enjoy the wife of their youth. This means you should enjoy yourself while you have strength as young couples. Don’t be too serious at home and learn to live together as best friends.

The force of joy is very vital in the home front. Joy, celebration, thanksgiving, rejoicing, the sound of melody, praises, and worship to God all go hand in hand.

Psa 67:5-6, KJV Let the people praise thee, O God; let all the people praise thee. Then shall the earth yield her increase; and God, even our own God, shall bless us.

We are encouraged in this scripture to praise the Lord, then our earth; whatever it is that represents the earth to us will yield her increase. Whether barrenness, lack, joblessness, debt, et cetera

The logical thing to do is get moody when things are not working. But we operate from a higher level. We rejoice to get the increase.

Your boss, spouse, or colleague may be treating you badly. Rather than fight back, you switch into praise.

Receive Grace and strength to enter into praise. God inhabits your praise. Your praise invites God to fight on your behalf.

Php 4:4  Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice.

Let nothing steal your joy. Let your rejoicing be in the Lord 

Don’t allow the pressure of finances, raising children, in-laws and others destabilize your togetherness and joy.

Nothing must come in between your joy. Between the two of you, one person will be more playful and tend towards being joyful all the time.

Let the playful one take the initiative and the other follows suit.

The Holy Spirit knows what He’s saying when He says enjoy the wife of your youth.

Be deliberate in making each other happy. Do not make others outside your home or marriage happy at the expense of your spouse.

Read books together and discuss them. Invest in each other.

I pray your marriage will be beautiful and filled with new wine.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my spouse and we enjoy life together
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help us to be joyful always.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Ecc 9:9  Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Rejoice and enjoy yourself

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Col 3




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