How Being Too Emotional Can Ruin Anybody Quickly

How Being Too Emotional Can Ruin Anybody Quickly

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Sade has been abused since she was young. Almost everybody who met her wanted to abuse her. From her cousins to her Uncles, and then to the gateman. From fellow schoolmates to friends and neighbors, it has been the same story. It is as though she has a magnetic entity in her body that draws people filled with lust.

She got born again and the story did not change. She is completely frustrated and did not what to do. At the root of it all, she discovered she has grown to a point where she actually entertained herself with abusive thoughts. She looked forward to being abused unconsciously and she would often position herself in such scenarios by following guys she barely know to their homes for sex romps

She is completely frustrated. She has prayed, read her Bible, and fasted, yet the problem persisted.

Well, the main issue about Sade’s problem is that she has an addiction; and it is called sex addiction. She thought she was just being an emotional person. But she is wrong.

It is even possible she has not yet slept with anybody, aside from all the touch and kisses, and yet be sex addicted. This is because not all sex addicts need to have sex to feed their addiction, they only need to fantasize.

Such people can have sexual pleasure by just viewing pornography, by thinking about a certain person that has been tattooed into their brain, by a certain object or image they have photographed into their brain.

The brain has then attached sexual pleasure to these persons, objects, or fantasies such that all they need is a thought away. And of course, because this is dominant in the brain, anytime an opportunity presents itself to express these carnal thoughts, they simply give in. This is why such people often say they cannot say No.

Such people will certainly need a form of therapy in addition to the renewal of mind exercises that is persistent to become free. I will write more on this in the ensuing days.

If you find yourself in such a scenario and you believe you need help, you can send me a mail at  or send a WhatsApp message via +234 802 350 7395 for private premium therapy that can be of help.

Have a great day.

I am free from all forms of emotional addictions.

Oh Lord, deliver me from all forms of emotional addictions.

Rom 12:1-2 (NKJV)I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.

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Rom 12

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Sexual Addiction By Pastor Dunamis (18th August 2021)

Sexual Addiction By Pastor Dunamis (18th August 2021)

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Sexual Addiction was taught by Rev. Dunamis Okunowo on the 18th of August 2021 at Shouts of Grace Center, Joke Plaza, Beside Trans Amusement Park, Bodija-UI Road, Ibadan.

In his teaching, Rev. Dunamis made mention of the following important points:

It is to the extent to which you are free that you can help others.

Sexual addiction is a mental disease.

The problem that follows you to marriage started when you were single. So you must learn to deal with the issues you see in your life as a single. The earlier you deal with sexual addiction, the better for you.

3 Building Blocks Of Sexual Addiction

  1. Fantasy
  2. Pornography
  3. Masturbation

Some sex addicts do not need pornography to start fantasizing.

Some Characteristics Of Sex Addicts

  1. Poor self-image
  2. Mood alteration and escape
  3. Denial and delusions

Most of our problems began when we were little, and until we go back to the beginning we may not be able to break free.

There are some unhealthy family rules which can serve as a root of sexual addiction. Some of these rules include we don’t talk, we don’t feel, we blame others for our problems, we minimize our problems, we deny our problems.

You have to come to the place of honesty to be absolutely free. As a single person, you must learn to talk.

If you don’t rewire your brain, you cannot be all that God has called you to be.

The lying spirit prevents any help from coming to you. So when the devil wants to deal with you with sexual sins or sexual addiction, he brings lies and deception with it, so that you don’t tell the whole truth and be free. You therefore live in continuous denial and setback.

You must therefore learn to speak up, not to just anybody but to mature people who watch over you e.g. your pastor, etc.

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