Dealing With A Defiant Lover

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Jul 29, 2023 | Singles and Married

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Dealing With A Defiant Lover

Are you in love with someone who doesn’t listen to anyone?

Do you have a spouse who has no authority figure over them?

Let’s start with singles.

Nothing is more marriage suicide than that.

Pastor, why would you say that?

The reasons should be self-evident.

Life is lived with the wisdom that God has bestowed upon us, not in aloofness or aloneness.

You will always come to periods in your life when you will require the wisdom of those above you, authoritative figures, and those who have gone before you.

Proverbs, chapter twenty, verse eighteen, says,
Every purpose is established by counsel: and with good advice make war.

Progress in life is based on this principle of getting wisdom from those ahead of you.

The Message Translation of same verse says
Form your purpose by asking for counsel, then carry it out using all the help you can get.

Dealing With A Defiant Lover

It is thus bad to fall in love and share a boat with someone who disregards knowledge and listens to no one.

When this happens in a marriage, the other spouse has only one option: pray.

However, as a single person who is not yet married, you have the option of rejecting an evil disguised as love.

Never offer your heart to a man whose heart is inaccessible to everyone.

Never give your heart to a man or woman about whom you cannot speak to anyone.

There is no Pastor.

There is no mentor.

There are no parents. They are alive, but they appear to be dead since their child does not listen to them.

There is no authoritative figure.

He or she is in his or her own universe.

Only consults with friends who are worse than him.

Don’t just walk away from such folks; instead, run for your life.

Dealing With A Defiant Lover

This love thing has a tendency to make people foolish. And it shouldn’t. Take care.

You lose all sense of logic, and this tsunami of feelings completely overwhelms you.

In the midst of all of this, determine whether your lover respects authority figures.

If he doesn’t, you haven’t met anyone yet.

If you are ready married, and this is the situation, you really want to talk to your spouse, seek help urgently and find at least someone they will listen to. With a lot of prayers, hopefully, things will change

Have a great weekend.

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