The Bizarre Truth Behind Marital Offences

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Sep 8, 2022 | Singles and Married

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The Bizarre Truth Behind Marital Offences. Mr. and Mrs. George have never had one week of peace since their wedding. One thing would happen, and they will get offended and stay in strife. Most of their marriage days have been filled with bickering, bitterness, and offences.

In the same vein, Debby and Craig fought most of the time in their courtship. They tagged along hoping things will change for the better when they wed and start living together. They should have consulted with the Georges to know that marriage does not annihilate offences.

What is the bizarre truth behind offences? I taught this message yesterday in church, on spur of the moment and this will bless you!

Take a look at the Holy Writ!

Mar 4:16-17 (KJV) And these are they likewise which are sown on stony ground; who, when they have heard the word, immediately receive it with gladness; [17] And have no root in themselves, and so endure but for a time: afterward, when affliction or persecution ARISETH FOR THE WORD’S SAKE, immediately they are OFFENDED.

In the above verse, affliction or persecution comes not because your spouse is unloving, not because your spouse is insensitive and whatever reasons you may proffer, they come for the word’s sake! And because that same word or revelation is not rooted, offence comes! And the seed of the word is lost and there is no fruit to show for it.

Let me give a practical example. Your spouse or your fiancee does something so annoyingly and refuses to ask for forgiveness and he’s even blaming you for it. You are wondering why your lover or spouse can’t own up. You are really angry and you get offended. You refuse to talk to him or her. Strife sets in, offence comes. Now, here is the bizarre truth. All that happened, not because your spouse is wicked or bad and all that, but because the devil doesn’t want any fruit from the word you heard last Sunday, midweek, or from your personal study!

Afflictions and persecution come for the word’s sake!

Amplified Bible puts it this way;
…when trouble or persecution arises on account of the Word, they immediately are offended (become displeased, indignant, resentful) and they stumble and fall away.

You will not stumble! You will not fall away!

Be wise not to allow stuff between you and your lover or spouse to degenerate into strife! Forgive quickly!

Singles who are not in any relationship, refuse offences from colleagues, family, or friends.

Offence will stifle, choke, and strangulate the seed of the word, prophetic proclamations, and blessings from becoming a reality!

It is not your boss, friend, lover, or spouse that is the problem, it is on account of the word! This is The Bizarre Truth Behind Marital Offences!

May God grant you more understanding!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I refuse to be offended

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
My fruit will not be lost in Jesus name!

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Mar 4:17 (CEV) But they don’t have any roots, and they don’t last very long. As soon as life gets hard or the message gets them in trouble, they give up.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
End all strife and bickering

BIBLE READING
Mar 4

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