Finding Who To Marry; A Conversation – Part 3

Finding Who To Marry; A Conversation – Part 3

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The conversation is continued from yesterday

Betty: Because guys are logical. When you easily compromise, they are wondering how many men you are doing that with. They will eventually go for a lady that they perceive as a ‘good girl.’ They can even go to church to look for one, but that is also a mistake on their part.

Angie: God punish them!

Betty: Why curse now? You see, guys who don’t have a relationship with God are able to identify very needy ladies and those with low self-esteem. So they capitalize on that, use them and dump them, and eventually go and marry those they think are more confident.

Angie: My God!

Betty: That is why you must make up your mind never to compromise because of some pressures. 

Angie: I am trying.

Betty: Trying is not what God says. You must make up your mind. Do you want God’s plan concerning marriage to be a reality in your life?

Angie: Yes o

Betty: Then you must stop compromising. You cannot eat your cake and have it.

Angie: Auntie, I can’t wait to get married. All my problems will fly away.

Betty: There you go again. Marriage will not solve problems. In fact, if you are unprepared, it brings more problems. 

Angie: Not if we really love ourselves

Betty: Loving yourselves does not eliminate quarrels and offenses. It just helps you to handle them the right way.

Angie: Auntie, what do you quarrel about?

Betty: (Smiles) Our first quarrel was during our honeymoon. There was the moon, but no honey.

Angie: What did Uncle do? Auntie, you must be tough.

Betty: He left me alone during our honeymoon and started working on his laptop. He just ignored me. I was angry. Our last quarrel was three days ago. But in all of that, you know what, we forgive each other quickly and move on because if we don’t, there won’t be a marriage.

To be continued tomorrow…

I will not miss it in marriage.

Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

Eph 1:18 [GW] Then you will have deeper insight. You will know the confidence that he calls you to have and the glorious wealth that God’s people will inherit.

Pray for insight

Eph 1


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