Here Are Reasons Men Delay Or Run From Marriage – Part 2

Here Are Reasons Men Delay Or Run From Marriage – Part 2

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Continued from yesterday.

Here are some reasons why men often delay or develop a sore foot when it comes to getting married.

4. They don’t want to lose all the attention they get from girlfriends

He may just still be that handsome boyfriend that all other girlfriends are doting over.

So he wants to enjoy the attention and he feels the marriage will take that attention away.

5. They still want to have fun

He is a party freak and he knows that marriage will ‘imprison’ him.

So, he prefers to stay acquitted and discharged.

He has a warped view of what marriage really is.

He might still want to also stay in touch with his ex or exes for sexual gratification.

6. They are not really in love

He may not really be in love with you. He may just be holding unto you because of the fun he gets constantly.

As far as he is concerned, marriage is all about sex

Since he can get it now, then there is no need to take it to the next level with deeper commitments, especially when finances would be involved.

7. They don’t want any commitment yet

He is just not interested in having any commitments because he believes he wouldn’t have that ‘time’ to himself again.

8. They are just not sincere

He may just not be sincere with you.

So he keeps postponing and postponing when in reality, he is not going to get married to you.

This is nothing short of designer wickedness!

9. They have not made up their minds on who they want

He is still unsure of who the best is among his numerous girlfriends.

And that is where the problem is, double dating and pre-maritals bring confusion into the soul.

The more girls he gets involved with in his bid to decide, the more confused he becomes.

The more he looks, the less he sees until he can see nothing in the midst of everything!

10. They don’t really understand the biblical concept of marriage

When a man doesn’t have a relationship with God, he would not really understand the true purpose of marriage and that would eventually inform his actions and decisions.

That is why as a marriage counselor, I often say that it is unwise to get involved with a man that doesn’t truly love God!

Good morning!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not experience a marital delay.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psalm 32:8 (KJV) I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye.

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Forgive those that have hurt you

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Here Are Lovers Whose Love May Not Work

Here Are Lovers Whose Love May Not Work

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As singles and married couples, you are to deliberately work things out in your relationship or marriage and with the help of the Holy Spirit.

Here is what the scripture says:

…work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. (Philippians 2:12b KJV)

In courtship, you are to work things out. Courtship does not lead to marriage automatically, you are to work things out in your disposition, attitude, and reactions.

Now there are some couple combinations that are sure to crack along the way. When you find yourself in these spots, you need to seek help prayerfully and with a lot of wisdom to address the lurking issues. Here are those combinations:

1. Two people who are unbelievers

Two people who are unbelievers may love themselves, may be committed to each other, but when the storms of life come, they will fight their battles alone and you know, some of those battles can be very fierce.

They will not have God’s support since they don’t have a relationship with God. They will not have the benefit of sonship and it can be very intense! They need to connect with God!

2. Two people who are believers but refuse to grow

The second group of couples are those who may be believers but whose minds are not renewed. The only thing is that they already have a relationship with God, but apart from that, they are still carnal.

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They still do their stuff like unbelievers would do. They still want to have fun in forbidden areas and they still want to explore the perverse, which would often come with dire consequences.

My advice for couples in this group is that they seek help as soon as possible.

3. Two people where one is born again and the other is not

Here is another scenario that doesn’t always play out well, except with a lot of patience, prayers, and perseverance. I always advise singles, don’t think of getting married to someone who doesn’t have a relationship with God.

It would always be filled with challenges that you might have to fight alone because you are not agreed on your choice of weapons.

It can be frustrating while one is praying, the other is clubbing.

You want to pray, but he or she thinks you are just being fanatical. That can be very disconcerting, to say the least.

To be continued tomorrow…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am not greedy.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to love correctly.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Joh 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believes, should not perish, but have everlasting life.

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Give genuinely

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John 3

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