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How Unfaithfulness Can Be Spelt As Neglect

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Oct 3, 2021 | Couples

Reading Time: 3 minutes

How do you know a potential spouse that will be unfaithful when you are not married yet? There are tell-tale signs. When you double date, you are simply in a rehearsal for adultery. Simple!

Why is this so? You see, it takes the same heart! The heart that can accommodate and justify double dating will also glide into the dangerous terrain of adultery and extra-marital affairs effortlessly!

Adultery is a killer. It looks sweet initially, but the consequences are undesirable.

Now, let’s look at some scriptures in the book of Proverbs.

When Solomon starts talking to you about adultery, you had better listen. He had it all and you will never be able to break his record! He had so many women in his harem that he must have used tallies or numbers to identify them.

Stolen waters are sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.
Pro 9:17 KJV

Adultery seems sweet, but what happens afterwards?

Bread of deceit is sweet to a man; but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel.
Pro 20:17 KJV

You sure don’t want to be served a plate of gravel for food, but that is what a lot of people are cooking for lunch and dinner!

Unfaithfulness in your marriage will also reduce you. It will reduce you to what can be swallowed by the devil. See it here:

For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life.
Pro 6:26 KJV

God frowns at adulterous relationships! It is also a stupid sin because the consequences are staring you on your face and you still go ahead. You know it is wrong, yet like the proverbial dog which refuses to heed the hunter’s whistle, you go ahead.

Your conscience pricks you, yet you refuse to unlock yourself from the embrace of the strange woman or the evil man as the scripture aptly puts it. It is simply a stupid sin. See it here:

But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
Pro 6:32 KJV

See other translation:

Adultery is a brainless act, soul-destroying, self-destructive;
Pro 6:32 MSG

Let’s see one more translation

But whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks heart and understanding (moral principle and prudence); he who does it is destroying his own life.
Pro 6:32 AMP

What is my advice?

Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
Pro 5:18 KJV

See it in the Amplified version.

Let your fountain [of human life] be blessed [with the rewards of fidelity], and rejoice in the wife of your youth.
Pro 5:18 AMP

What is God trying to say here? God is trying to identify one of the causes of adultery. What is that? NEGLECT! Don’t neglect your spouse in any way especially where your sexual life is concerned.

The greatest need of a man is jeru trip. The greatest need of a woman is communication and attention. Give this to each other and enjoy each other!

Protect each other by satisfying yourselves. Jeru trip is not a reward system neither is it a punishment tool! According to the amplified version above, when you satisfy yourselves as a married couple, you will be blessed with the rewards of fidelity.

May God grant us more understanding.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a wise spouse. I will not shoot myself in the leg.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray against the spirit of lust in your family.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Proverbs 6:32-33 (CEV) But if you go to bed with another man’s wife, you will destroy yourself by your own stupidity. You will be beaten and forever disgraced.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Avoid adultery.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Prov 6

Rev Dunamis Okunowo